Talk and listen

When we stop talking about ourselves and listen to others, we will come across as great talkers and communicators.

Actively listening and responding meaningfully is the best way to win a friend. Let people talk about their ideas, children, hobbies, etc.

The ability to really listen is perhaps the most important skill you could develop.

Why don't we listen?

• We like to rather talk because when we talk, we're in control. We don't have to listen to anything we're not interested in.
• We get distrac...

Although Americans tend to put down small talk as if it’s superficial, it’s actually very important.

It’s about negotiating relationships, as sometimes it leads to an ongoing relationship or even a romantic relationship. You hear, ‘We were at this party, the next thing we knew, we were tal...