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🔺Guard your attention 🔺

🔺Guard your attention 🔺

  • You want to be a good listener but it doesn't mean that you should just listen to everyone want.
  • So if you're in an interaction and you don't see it going anywhere you feel like it's a waste of your time, be willing to walk away.
  • Be a little bit more nonchalant and relaxed.
  • You don't have to please everyone but at the very least be real be authentic because that's what makes you look more mysterious and it's very attractive.

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💸 Effort Compounds

💸 Effort Compounds

Small win will ripple your confidence in every single area of your life:

  • It comes from putting in the effort and work every single day because ladies and gentlemen effort compounds
  • It comes from committing to going to the gym three times a week consistently,...

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BERNARD BARUCH

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. 

BERNARD BARUCH

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GEORGE WASHINGTON

Be courteous to all, but intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence."

GEORGE WASHINGTON

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📌 The Dark Confidence Aesthetic.

📌 The Dark Confidence Aesthetic.

If you look at people like James Bond, Bruce Wayne or Ryan Reynolds they're all confident introverts. They all have this dark confidence and mysterious Charisma that's so attractive so if you're an introvert let me tell you right now you can use it to your advant...

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⚓ Build momentum

⚓ Build momentum

By far the easiest way to do this is by mastering one area of your life.

So for example if you have an exam coming up and you study smart and Ace your exam you build confidence in academics you build confidence in school and naturally when you build confidence in one area ...

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RUMI

Don't be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth.

RUMI

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🧞‍♂️ Compliment people without any hidden ask

🧞‍♂️ Compliment people without any hidden ask

When you like someone's stuff maybe it's a book they wrote or maybe it's a YouTube video they posted tell them immediately and don't ask for anything.

Or if you're if you're in class and you really like your friend's outfit for the day say to them.

If you do this o...

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 LOU HOLTZ

You're never as good as everyone tells you when you win, and you're never as bad as they say when you lose.

LOU HOLTZ

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🥋 Build abundance and mastery

🥋 Build abundance and mastery

In a skill, you don't want to fake confidence, it has to be real and the way you get real confidence is through competence.

It's through the ability to say, you know what I have an undeniable proof that I am who I say I am...

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🪞 If you're an introvert you're probably introspective

🪞 If you're an introvert you're probably introspective

You probably think about a lot of things for what you want whether that be to Ace an exam or getting a strong aesthetic body or building a personal brand online.

That kind of self-awareness and intelligence is just super super attractive.

So if you're an introvert y...

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👨‍🔧 Fix your body language

👨‍🔧 Fix your body language

A couple of things you can do here are:

  • to be chill and non-reactive,
  • speaking clearly and a little bit slower,
  • stand up straight,
  • start walking with relaxed shoulder,
  • walk like you're a man with a mission , & more

If you follow these...

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👥🎮 Learn Social Games

👥🎮 Learn Social Games

Being social is a skill that you can learn as an introvert so the main thing you want to do is learn how to network with people and provide value in Social Circles. And there are three really easy and effective ways you can do:

  • Compliment people with...

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🎉 Finally !!!

🎉 Finally !!!

Remember, these words hold immense power. Let them resonate within you as you journey toward your own version of success! 🌟

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🧠 Change your Mindset

🧠 Change your Mindset

Change your mindset on what an introvert is. Most people think that introverts are just shy people but it simply means that you recharge your energy being alone & that you're comfortable being alone

Confidence isn't I know they'll like me it's I'm okay if they don'...

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👂🏻Become a good listener

👂🏻Become a good listener

People like to talk about themselves and they like to be heard so when it comes to social interactions you want to be the type of person who asks more question and who listen to get in that other person's spirit.

For example when I want to date with the girl I'm probably speaking 2...

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CHRIS EVERT

You've got to take the initiative and play your game. In a decisive set, confidence is the difference.

CHRIS EVERT

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👨‍🔧 Fix your body language

👨‍🔧 Fix your body language

A couple of things you can do here are:

  • to be chill and non-reactive,
  • speaking clearly and a little bit slower,
  • stand up straight,
  • start walking with relaxed shoulder,
  • walk like you're a man with a mission , & more

If you follow these...

Understand the purpose of listening

Listening to someone can be difficult. But the more you practice, the easier it becomes.

One reason for trying to be a great listener is to show respect to everyone, and the best way to respect someone is to truly listen to them. Most likely, they'll reciprocate by listeni...

Personal Safety When Traveling Alone

  • Stick to open and public places, especially at night.
  • Trust yourself. If it doesn't feel right, don't do it.
  • Appear confident. Walk confidently and with direction. If you are lost, walk into a shop or restaurant and ask fo...

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