II.
- Without boundaries, people will make life decisions for you. You will literally agree to anything, everything, at any time and every time. You will find it difficult to say “NO”, even when it’s against your values or moral.
- Without boundaries, you will be coerced into opening up important parts of you even when you don’t feel like doing so.
- Without boundaries, you will drown in the valley of low self-esteem.
- Without boundaries, you will spend the rest of your life seeking approval and validation from people who don’t care about you or even know you (Netizens).
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