IV.
- Without boundaries, you will be a scary cat. You will lack assertiveness and will be unable to stand up for yourself because people will constantly violate your rights.
- Without boundaries, you will be extremely dependent on people because you allow them to tell you when and how to think, act, and feel.
- Without boundaries, you will fall quickly in love with people who give you the barest minimum, because that is what you are used to.
- Without boundaries, you will find it difficult to respect other people’s boundaries because you are yet to understand the concept.
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