How To Use Blame The Game And Not The Player

Let's say your close knit family member has lied, or has a fight, or doesn't accept his mistake in a certain situation.

What will you do?

Instead of saying you never learn and it's all your mistake, you need to firstly highlight the good things about what has happened and then say that at this certain age or in this certain circumstance everyone feels the need to do this same thing but these small scenarios need this kind of resolution mindset and set of actions to solve the conflict situation.