Solving Small Daily Life Conflicts with Ease
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Blame The Game And Not The Player
Being a people pleaser disables one from taking conflict of any form. The idea about going into a conflict situation is so hyper to these people, that "you're wrong" is something they would never say unless they know the person too well.
The very first step for change in pleasing personality is to learn to take on conflicts. And to take on conflicts there's nothing better than "Blame the game and not the player". It is an effective way to indirectly communicate people their faults without being a pain in the ass.
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Why "Blame The Game And Not The Player"?
It's allows you to get your point across with least or no amount of resistance from the opposition, as you don't directly point towards a person saying "you did this or that wrong" instead you divert all that attention to the situation saying that it's usual for people to behave this way in these kind of scenarios. Afterwards communicating that there are far better options available to tackle such situations.
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How To Use Blame The Game And Not The Player
Let's say your close knit family member has lied, or has a fight, or doesn't accept his mistake in a certain situation.
What will you do?
Instead of saying you never learn and it's all your mistake, you need to firstly highlight the good things about what has happened and then say that at this certain age or in this certain circumstance everyone feels the need to do this same thing but these small scenarios need this kind of resolution mindset and set of actions to solve the conflict situation.
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Will They Understand And Realise Their Mistake?
Most probably no, the idea about others realising and accepting their mistake is flawed, nobody will ever whole heartedly accept their mistakes. Thaty just how things are, most people learn from their own mistakes and not from others mistake. Your job is to inform them the decision at the end lies with them.
Better to make a friend than make an enemy.
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CURATOR'S NOTE
Conflicts cannot avoided in life, especially the ones you face in daily lives . These situation may arise anytime with anyone be it colleagues, juniors, boss, friends and family members etc etc. The article below highlights one of the best ways to resolve such situations.
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