The Pressure to Maintain Long-term Friendships
Have you ever felt like you have to stay friends with someone just because you've known them for a long time? It's a common dilemma, but remember:
- You don't owe anyone your friendship.
- Friends should bring joy and positivity to your life.
- If you feel like you are putting in all the effort, it may be time to reconsider the friendship.
Don't be afraid to let go of friendships that no longer serve you. It's okay to move on and make new friends. Friendship should be based on mutual respect and happiness, not obligation. #friendsforever ❣️
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