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The Power of Understanding Others and Dealing with Rudeness

Communication can be difficult, especially when people don't understand what you're saying. Unfortunately, they may respond with rudeness or negative comments to try to hurt you. But, remember that it's their own insecurities and lack of self-awareness that lead them to act this way.

  • They may not be interested in or value the same things as you.
  • They may say rude things to hurt you

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