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Alain de Botton

"One of the first things couples should do is rather than saying how perfect they are, they should say 'I'm crazy like this, how are you crazy?'.

Most of the time we make discoveries about how difficult people are at the moment when the difficulties have actually hurt us, therefore, we are not likely to be forgiving or sympathetic."

ALAIN DE BOTTON

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"At the touch of love, everyone becomes a poet." - Plato

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The Art of Leadership

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