Put In The Work
It’s not enough to wish for a healthy marriage, you’ve got to take the steps to make it happen.
Love doesn’t simply stay safe on its own, you have to learn to protect it. Be deliberate about protecting it.
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Marriage would be so much easier If husbands and wives realized they're on the same side. No great marriage is healthy because of chemistry or because you married your high school lover. Great marriages occurs only when you deliberately choose to work on them.
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