The phenomenon in which we overestimate how much people are watching us.
It can cause anxiety, but do yourself a favor and remember that people are seldom interested in you as much as you think.
Examples of the Spotlight Effect:
Remember:Ā you are not the center of attention and people are not scrutinizing your every move. š
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This series explores 21 different cognitive mind traps, fallacies, biases and other phenomenon that exist within your brain. This series is inspired by Daniel Kahneman's "Thinking Fast and Slow."
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Similar ideas to 2. The Spotlight Effect
It refers to our tendency to overestimate how much other people notice about us: we tend to think there is a spotlight on us, highlighting all of our mistakes or flaws, for all the world to see.
The spotlight effect is the resultĀ of egocentrism: we seeĀ our entire existence ...
Your mistakes are not noticed as much as you think.
People arenāt paying attention at our moments of failure nearly as much as we think.Ā The perception of our being under constant scrutiny is merely in our minds.
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