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MELODY BEATTIE

"The more you cling to your ways, the more you'll find yourself stuck in the patterns that harm you."

MELODY BEATTIE

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High School Reading Teacher. Book lover. Sharing insights to inspire discovery. "Reading is to the mind what exercise is to the body." – Joseph Addison

Understanding and overcoming codependency can transform your life, allowing you to care for yourself while fostering healthier relationships. 'Codependent No More' guides us through this journey, helping us recognize codependent behaviors and adopt healthier patterns. Let's explore the key principles to stop controlling others and start caring for yourself.

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