<ol><li>The only way to win an argument is to avoid it.</li><li>It is essential to avoid arguing at all costs, have discussions focused on areas of mutual agreement, and listen to the other person.</li><li>Never say, "You are wrong."</li><li>It is important to avoid imposing one's own beliefs on other people.</li><li>Admit your mistakes</li></ol>

Admit your mistakes quickly and emphatically.

<ol><li>Talk about your own mistakes before starting to criticize the person you are dealing with.</li><li>Indirectly draw attention to errors.</li><li>Speak first of your errors.</li></ol>

Remember: criticism is better received after praise.

<ol><li>Start by being friendly.</li><li>Make the person say "yes."</li><li>Speak less.</li><li>Let the other person feel ownership of the idea.</li><li>Place yourself in their shoes.</li><li>Be careful with people.</li><li>Appeal to noble causes</li><li>Remember: just citing truths is not enough.</li></ol>

<ol><li>Listen actively.</li><li>Speak about their interests.</li><li>Make them feel important.</li></ol>

Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves

<ol><li>Demonstrate interest in people.</li><li>Always smile.</li><li>Remember names, always.</li></ol>

Remember the names of the people you deal with, always.

<ol><li>Never critique, condemn or make claims,</li><li>No one likes people who are always looking for flaws and criticizing others.</li><li>In order to win more friends, one needs ta avoid criticizing others and putting them down.</li><li>When it is difficult to see the good in others, try to understand the reason why people have certain behaviors.</li><li>Demonstrate genuine appreciation</li><li>In order to influence someone, it is essential to ask how they can be convinced to want to do it.</li></ol>

Don't criticize. Instead, give honest and sincere appreciation

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Learn to arouse an eager want in the other person

<ol><li>Encourage the other person. Make their mistakes seem easy to correct.</li><li>Let them keep their dignity</li><li>Sincerely and generously encourage success.</li><li>Skills are chipped away at by criticisms, but they grow with praise.</li><li>Give someone a reputation he/she will live up to.</li><li>Make the faults seem easily correctable.</li><li>Make them happy for following your suggestions.</li></ol>

Ask questions, do not give orders

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