Ask for what you want to avoid resentment
If you're often complaining about your workplace or romantic relationships, there's a high chance that you're not communicating what you want to happen differently. This leads to resentment and it damages your relationships.
Instead, you should be honest about your desires and boundaries and ask for what you want. Even if you don't get what you want, you'll maintain your integrity and your relationships will improve over time.
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