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Reciprocity

Reciprocity

  • The most likable students also liked the most other people.
  • We are more inclined to enjoy being with people who visibly enjoy being with us.
  • In social psychology, this is called the reciprocity effect. We also feel the need to give back the kind of treatment we receive. So if someone smiles at us, we smile back. If someone asks us questions, we feel the need to ask questions back. If someone shares a vulnerability, we feel the need to share a vulnerability back.

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