iv) Don’t be a moralizer - Deepstash

iv) Don’t be a moralizer

You often give irritating comments to the people you’re conversing with, like saying, “How can you listen to this kind of nasty music?”

An example of a moralizer is, “Good and honest men do not act that way!” It is the most irritating and the least effective method of communication.

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