Achieving a balance between work and personal life is essential for happiness. Holmes discusses the importance of setting boundaries between work and personal time, ensuring neither is neglected. She shares tips on how to manage work responsibilities while still making time for personal interests and relationships.

Balancing Work & Professional Life

Time affluence refers to the feeling of having enough time for the things that matter most. Cassie Holmes emphasizes that prioritizing activities that bring joy and fulfillment can lead to a greater sense of well-being. She suggests tracking time usage to identify and eliminate time-wasting activities, thereby increasing time affluence.

Time Affluence

“The key to a fulfilling life is not to eliminate the mundane, but to elevate the meaningful.”

Routines can provide structure and predictability, reducing stress and increasing happiness. Holmes highlights the value of establishing daily routines that incorporate activities that promote well-being. A morning routine that includes exercise, healthy eating, and planning for the day can set a positive tone.

The Benefits of Routine

Time is our most precious resource. How we spend our hours ultimately defines how we spend our lives.

Intentional scheduling involves planning your day around activities that bring happiness. Holmes advocates for scheduling enjoyable activities first and fitting other tasks around them. For example, if exercise brings joy, schedule it as a non-negotiable part of your day, ensuring it happens regularly.

The Power of Intentional Scheduling

Flexibility allows for adaptation to life’s changes and unexpected events. Holmes advises being open to adjusting plans and priorities as needed. Embracing flexibility can reduce stress and increase resilience, helping individuals navigate life’s ups and downs with a more positive outlook.

Embracing Flexibility

Gratitude practices can significantly boost happiness. Holmes suggests keeping a gratitude journal to regularly reflect on positive experiences and things you’re thankful for. This practice shifts focus from what’s lacking to what’s abundant, fostering a more positive and content mindset.

Practicing Gratitude

Savouring involves fully experiencing and appreciating the present moment. Holmes discusses techniques such as mindfulness and gratitude to enhance the savouring of everyday experiences. For instance, taking a moment to truly enjoy a cup of coffee or a walk in the park can significantly increase happiness.

Savoring Moments

Holmes highlights the importance of prioritising activities that add meaning to your life. She encourages individuals to identify what they value most, such as spending time with family, engaging in hobbies, or volunteering, and to allocate time to these activities, leading to a more fulfilling life.

Prioritising Meaningful Activities

“Happiness is not about having more time, but about better allocating the time we have.”

Time poverty is the feeling of having too much to do and not enough time to do it. Holmes suggests strategies for reducing time poverty, such as delegating tasks, setting boundaries, and simplifying commitments. By freeing up time, individuals can focus more on activities that bring joy and satisfaction.

Reducing Time Poverty

Strong social connections are vital for happiness. Holmes underscores the importance of spending time with loved ones and building meaningful relationships. She shares research showing that quality social interactions can boost mood and overall life satisfaction, encouraging people to prioritize social activities.

The Impact of Social Connections

Leisure activities are crucial for relaxation and happiness. Holmes advises incorporating regular leisure time into your schedule. Whether it’s reading, playing sports, or engaging in creative pursuits, leisure activities provide a necessary break from daily stressors and enhance overall well-being.

The Role of Leisure

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Learn how to reframe your time around life’s happiest moments to build days that aren’t just full but fulfilling with this “joyful guide” (Eve Rodsky, New York Times bestselling author) that is the antidote to overscheduling. Our most precious resource isn’t money. It’s time. We are allotted just twenty-four hours a day, and we live in a culture that keeps us feeling “time poor.” Since we can’t add more hours to the day, how can we experience our lives as richer? Based on her wildly popular MBA class at UCLA, Professor Cassie Holmes demonstrates how to immediately improve our lives by changing how we perceive and invest our time. Happier Hour provides empirically based insights and easy-to-implement tools that will allow you to: -Optimally spend your hours and feel confident in those choices -Sidestep distractions -Create and savor moments of joy -Design your schedule with purpose -Look back on your years without regrets Enlivened by Holmes’s upbeat narrative and groundbreaking research, Happier Hour “is filled with loads and loads of practical, evidence-based advice for how to live better by investing in what really matters. It’s the kind of book that can change your life for the better” (Laurie Santos, Yale professor and host of The Happiness Lab podcast).

CASSIE HOLMES

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