Communicate Assertively, Not Aggressively

Try to avoid getting into a fight-or-flight response, which inevitably leads to becoming defensive. 

• Be direct and assertive when you express yourself. 
• Stay focused on how you respond. 
• Know when the discussion or argument has accelerated to the point of no re...

Aggressiveness is often an impulse. An aggressive person responds in a hostile or inconsiderate manner and often regrets doing so later. 

By contrast, assertiveness is planned, thoughtful, and considerate. An assertive person communicates his or her positio...

Self-forgiveness is a key component of self-compassion. When you forgive yourself, you acknowledge that you made a mistake, like all other humans do.

Self-forgiveness involves four key steps:

1. Take responsibility for your actions.
2. Express remorse and regret without let...