Not everyone will understand your journey. Some will judge your decisions. Others may dismiss your transformation as “acting better than them.”The pain of being misunderstood is part of the cost of freedom. Let go of their opinions. Focus on becoming who God is calling you to be.

Misunderstood but Free

Here’s what surrender taught me:	•	God won’t take the wheel until you give it to Him.	•	Surrender requires consent—you must say, “Lord, I’m ready for You to drive entirely,” and let go of the proverbial wheel.	•	The journey may be painful, but God uses the breaking to make you whole.

Lessons from Surrender

Psychologist Richard Tedeschi explains that personal growth often comes from pain. Nature teaches us this too:	•	Leaves decay, enriching the soil for new life.	• Rot is preparation, not an ending.God uses this same process in us, as reflected in His Word.

Transformation is Natural and Divine

Even when it doesn’t feel like it, your surrender to God is not in vain. Every tear, sacrifice, and misunderstood moment is building a life aligned with His purpose.Trust Him—what He’s building in you, and through you, will be worth it.

Keep Going

Isaiah 61:3 reminds us that God gives us “beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning.”He transforms our brokenness into something radiant. He is with us in the breaking and the rebuilding.

God’s Promises Are True

Growth often requires letting go of what no longer serves you—or Him. Discomfort around people, habits, or patterns is God’s nudge to release them. Vulnerability in the breaking process is fertile ground for transformation. What feels like loss is so often God making space for something greater.

Letting Go to Grow

Sometimes God lets you rot—not to harm you, but to remake you.When everything collapses—relationships, routines, and your sense of self—it’s terrifying. But it’s also a divine reset. God is clearing the way for transformation.

The Rot Before the Resurrection

Jesus tells us in John 12:24: “Unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds.”God often uses breaking and loss to create new growth. He doesn’t let parts of us die to harm us but to bring forth fruit. Trust that the breaking is part of His divine plan.

God’s Pattern of Death and Rebirth

The rot is not the end—it’s the beginning.God works through the breaking, the pain, and the moments that feel like endings. He is clearing the ground for something new, more alive, and aligned with His purpose for you.

Trust the Process

Transformation isn’t instantaneous—it’s a journey. For years, I fought God’s call by clinging to distractions and old habits. But God won’t take what you don’t give Him.	•	Surrender is the key to rebuilding.	•	True transformation happens when we release control to Him.

Breaking Down to Build Back

Even when it feels impossible and you feel shame that threatens to keep you in the shadows, your story has value. YOU are so very valuable. Sharing your journey can inspire someone else to open their heart. Your story can serve as a light for those still in the dark. Every tear and sacrifice has a purpose in God’s plan.

Your Story Matters

When life feels like it’s falling apart, it can seem like God is silent. But He may be speaking through the breaking. These moments, though painful, are sacred.God is not absent—He’s clearing the ground for something new. Trust the process and look for His purpose in your pain. What feels like an ending may be the first step toward a new beginning.

God Speaks Through the Breaking

Sometimes God lets us break to rebuild us. This testament to God’s promises explores surrender, transformation, and finding purpose through faith. I invite you to visit the linked article if you’d like to read about my experience in full. Blessings and love.

What do you do when your life feels like it’s crumbling into dust, and God seems silent? Sometimes, it feels like He’s letting you rot—but what if that decay is the first step toward new life? Now, consider this: What if God is not silent at all? What if He’s speaking in a language that…

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