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Avoid Yes-or-No Questions

Avoid Yes-or-No Questions

Closed-ended questions often limit responses and block meaningful dialogue. Instead, use calibrated questions to encourage thought and discussion.

Incorrect: “Do you like this approach?”

Instead say: “What do you think about this approach?”

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In our daily interactions, the way we frame questions can either open doors to understanding or shut down communication. Calibrated questions—those thoughtfully crafted to be open-ended and inviting—help steer conversations toward collaboration, problem-solving, and deeper insights.

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7. Ask Questions

The key, however, is to ask open-ended questions . That is, ask questions that don’t have a simple “yes or no” answer.

It’s the difference between Do you like living here? and What do you think about living here? Or the difference between Where did you...

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