Shift Blame to Problem-Solving
Instead of focusing on what went wrong, calibrate your question to look for solutions.
Incorrect: “Whose fault is it that we’re behind schedule?”
Instead say: “What can we do to get back on track?”
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In our daily interactions, the way we frame questions can either open doors to understanding or shut down communication. Calibrated questions—those thoughtfully crafted to be open-ended and inviting—help steer conversations toward collaboration, problem-solving, and deeper insights.
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