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Practical Tips for Using Calibrated Questions

Practical Tips for Using Calibrated Questions

Pause Before You Ask: Take a moment to frame your question thoughtfully.

Be Nonjudgmental: Keep your tone neutral to invite openness.

Encourage Elaboration: Use phrases like “Can you help me understand…” or “What do you mean by…” to dig deeper.

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In our daily interactions, the way we frame questions can either open doors to understanding or shut down communication. Calibrated questions—those thoughtfully crafted to be open-ended and inviting—help steer conversations toward collaboration, problem-solving, and deeper insights.

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