Difficult people will try to use logic and reasoning to bring up confrontation.
You will get roped into a 'defense-offense' position.
Release yourself from the need for others to see your perspective, agree with you or see that you're right.
You can say this instead:
"I've thought about this situation extensively, and don't need to discuss it."
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