Win Through Actions, Not Arguments

... without making enemies:

• Make sure you communicate you are not there to fight (using your tone of voice, for example).
• Avoid making statements; instead, ask questions.
• Defend yourself with confidence, but without coming across as antagonistic.

• Critics say the institution of the monarchy is old-fashioned and artificially maintaining privileges of a bygone era.
• When the young royal joins the armed forces, they are automatically made officers, leading to inequality and hierarchy.
• Others complain that royals do insu...

In order to establish effective interdependent relationships, create a win-win situation that is mutually beneficial and satisfying to each party.

To achieve Win-Win, keep the focus on results, not methods; on problems, not people.