They Ignore Things in Very Creative Ways Without Others Knowing,Also, Let Them Open Up.

07. Do Not Try to Inform People of Their Ignorance.

Socially Intelligent People Listen to Criticism Before They Respond to It.<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">An Immediate Emotional Response Without Thoughtful Consideration Is Simply Defensiveness.</li></ul>

03. Don't Immediately Deny Criticism or Have a Strong Emotional .

P1: They are prickly.P2: Socially, I had a negative experience with him where I felt uncomfortable.

04. Do Not Confuse Opinion with Fact.

Speaking definitively about a person or idea is to be blind to the multitude of perspectives that exist on it.It is the definition of closed-mindedness and short-sightedness.

2. Do not Speak Definitively about People, Politics, or Ideas.

They would be able to see statements and objectives from the person who is saying it.

13. Poison of well (Attack on character).

They know that the world does not revolve around them.They are able to listen to someone without worrying that any given statement they make is actually a slight against them.They are able to disassociate from their own projections and at least try to understand another person's perspective.

06. Practice Healthy Disassociation.

<ol><li class="ql-align-center">Do not elicit a strong emotional responses from anyone.</li></ol>

There are many ideas that do not deserve to be validated.But everyone's feelings deserve to be seen, acknowledged, and respected.

08. Validate Other People's Feelings.

Socially intelligent people know that not everybody wants to communicate, learn, grow, or connect - and so they do not try to force them.

10. Do Not Argue with People Who Only Want to Win.

14.Their primary relationship is to themselves, and they work on it tirelessly.

They don't say "You are wrong", instead they say "I think you are wrong".

12. Do Not Consider Themselves a Judge of What's True

If you genuinely disliked something, you would simply disengage with it.

09. Shadow Selves.

They speak calmly, simply, concisely, and mindfully.They focus on communicating, not others.(Michael Corleone)

05. Speak With Precision.

A meta-practice of holding space.When listening to others speak, they focus on what is being said, not how they will respond.

11. Listen to Hear, Not Respond.

People who are socially intelligent think and behave in a way that spans beyond what's culturally acceptable at any given moment in time. Here are core traits of someone who is socially intelligent:

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