The Four Ways Of Contacting The World
The world evaluates and classifies us in the following four ways:
- What we do.
- How we look.
- What we say.
- How we say it.
We are mostly focused on what we say but are ignoring or putting less emphasis on the other three. The world will reflect back to you all these four ways of contact, according to our own efforts in each one.
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