Be a good listener. Encourage others to tell you about themselves.

Listen to your collocutor

Remember that for a person, the sound of his name is the sweetest and most important sound of human speech.

Refer to people by name more often

People love the smile on other people's faces. The more you smile, the more pleasant the interlocutor will have a dialogue with you.

Smile! 

Always act in such a way that the other gets the impression that you are important. Professor John Dewey said: "The deepest principle of human nature is the passionate desire to be recognized."I have already pointed out that it is precisely this striving that distinguishes us from animals, it caused civilization in life, which was a response to it.

Let people feel their importance - and do it sincerely

Lead the conversation in the circle of interests of your interlocutor.

Show interest! 

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Dale Carnegie was an American writer and lecturer, and the developer of courses in self-improvement, salesmanship, corporate training, public speaking, and interpersonal skills.