We have to distinguish between healthy self-esteem and spiritual narcissism (the impresion of spiritual superiority) .
Healthy self-esteem—comprising a positive evaluation of one’s self-worth & mastery— should emerge naturally & organically through the engagement of authentic mastery and positive relationships, rather than by pursuing self-esteem as the goal.
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