No two individuals are alike, accept them for who they are.Every relationship is unique and is based on personal experiences, beliefs, wants, needs and values. Treat each one differently.Everyone has their own insecurities, no one is perfect! Your attitude influences their responses.Let people live for themselves do not waste your time trying to change them the only thing that will change them is immersive experience. "You cant do it for them."

Understanding people

Before helping someone with the struggles of life make sure you are in a fit state of mind, if you are overcome by emotion you will be of little use.Understand that when you help someone it is about them and not you.Allow feelings of their emotions, listening itself is already helping.Never advice you never know what will work for them. Trying to force a solution will only frustrate you.Accept their decisions and give them control, privacy with their personal issues.Following these practical rules is assuring, " you are on their side." and will generate positive interactions.

Helping people 

A PERSONAL CODE FOR GETTING THE BEST FROM EVERYONE. We all know someone who is a natural ‘people person’. They seem to understand what people really want, what they really think and what they really mean. They can effortlessly get people onside, and keep them happy and motivated. Is there something they know that the rest of us don't? Is it something we can all learn? The answer is a resounding yes. They know The Rules of People. These Rules are the guiding principles that show you how to connect with strangers, build strong relationships with friends and colleagues, and even get the best out of difficult people. They will help you say the right thing, do the right thing, and know instinctively how to handle every situation. You’ll have relaxed, easy relationships and you’ll be that person who gets on with everyone.

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A PERSONAL CODE FOR GETTING THE BEST FROM EVERYONE. We all know someone who is a natural ‘people person’. They seem to understand what people really want, what they really think and what they really mean. They can effortlessly get people onside, and keep them happy and motivated. Is there something they know that the rest of us don't? Is it something we can all learn? The answer is a resounding yes. They know The Rules of People. These Rules are the guiding principles that show you how to connect with strangers, build strong relationships with friends and colleagues, and even get the best out of difficult people. They will help you say the right thing, do the right thing, and know instinctively how to handle every situation. You’ll have relaxed, easy relationships and you’ll be that person who gets on with everyone.

The Rules of People

Alomi Chishi