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The Rules of People

Alomi Chishi's Key Ideas from The Rules of People
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Understanding people

Understanding people

No two individuals are alike, accept them for who they are.

Every relationship is unique and is based on personal experiences, beliefs, wants, needs and values. Treat each one differently.

Everyone has their own insecurities, no one is perfect! Your attitude influences their responses.

Let people live for themselves do not waste your time trying to change them the only thing that will change them is immersive experience. "You cant do it for them."

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Helping people

Helping people

Before helping someone with the struggles of life make sure you are in a fit state of mind, if you are overcome by emotion you will be of little use.

Understand that when you help someone it is about them and not you.

Allow feelings of their emotions, listening itself is already helping.

Never advice you never know what will work for them. Trying to force a solution will only frustrate you.

Accept their decisions and give them control, privacy with their personal issues.

Following these practical rules is assuring, " you are on their side." and will generate positive interactions.

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