1. Strategic Objectives2. Operating principles3. Working procedures In your personal life, your strategic objectives would be your ultimate purpose or life mission. Operating principles would be the principles you use to make decisions and should be congruent with your strategic objectives. And working procedures would be how you do any specific "thing". For instance, if one of your strategic objectives is to live with integrity, your guiding principle for that would involve asking if a particular action is congruent with your sense of integrity.

Life Systems

Then one of the working procedures for your relationships would deal with honest communication. Peak performers consistently spend time discovering, upgrading, and measuring new systems for living a better life. They are in a perpetual state of growth and self-innovation. If you are not winning, change the rules. If you can’t change the rules, ignore them, find and apply new ones that bring out the best in you.

Systems 2

Systems

Having money will give me and my family a comfortable life, as well as help others and my parents feel successful about my career and life.

My WHY

<ol><li class="ql-align-justify">will power is not at wills call</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Do not underestimate the power of your surroundings</li></ol>

Wisdom

<ol><li>Live, survive and Thrive</li><li>Avoid pain</li><li>Live to the meaning</li><li>Journal</li><li>Seize the day</li><li>Be your own bench mark</li><li>Aim top</li></ol>

Life Living By the Day

<ol><li>Morning routine</li><li>Evening routine</li><li>Life by design, Design thinking</li></ol>

Productivity Systems

<ol><li>Health</li><li>Wealth</li><li>Relationship</li><li>Meaning</li></ol>

Life Priorities

<ol><li>Maintain lifestyle</li><li>Retirement planning</li><li>Wealth creation</li><li>Education and health expenses</li><li>Home, car</li><li>Manage exigencies</li></ol>

Financial Goals

Daily must things to follow<ol><li>Drink enough water</li><li>Exercise</li><li>Eat well</li><li>Sleep well</li><li>Gearup and unwind routine</li></ol>

Health

<ol><li>Cut the nails</li><li>Shave and hair cut</li><li>Dental checkup</li></ol>

Self care

3 basic things to live a happy life:1.Someone to love2.Something to do3.Something to look forward to

Happy life

•How much free time do you want?”•“What do you want to spend money on?”•“Who do you want to spend time with?”•“What do you want to do for fun?”

What you want ?

<ol><li>Certainity</li><li>Uncertainity</li><li>Significance</li><li>Connection</li><li>Growth</li><li>Contribution</li></ol>

Human Needs

Yes, life is limitless,you will not be punished for what you did and didnt do.I choose the limited and decided to do something. Live,let others live grow,keep growing at your own pace and make a positive impact on humans lives and the environment  Live-Enjoy- Acceptance of what is- Prefer approach over avoidance let others live  -Roles and duties grow- Learn keep growing - Experiment and Explore More make a positive impact on humans lives and the environment 1. Teach

My Life

<ul><li>A life of unlimited possibilities awaits us; no actions or inactions will penalize you. i am already complete</li><li>My decision is to make a limited choice now & act forward to explore the unlimited</li><li>Live joyfully with gratitude and actively engaged and act ,Accept what is & embrace the unknown and uncertainty</li><li>Enjoy each day as I remain active, focused, motivated, consistent & persistent in my life goals with self compassion</li><li>Keep growing by learning,exploring,experimenting & act with self integrity</li><li>Let others live by fulfilling my roles and duties & make a +ve impact on human and environmental well-being.</li></ul>

My Vision

Knowing yourself, building a superior life strategy and setting clear goalsMaking sure your visions and actions are backed with strong positive emotionsProperly managing your body, mind, spirit, emotions, time and talentsBuilding a motivational environment for yourself and surrounding yourself with the right peopleStaying completely flexible about how you will achieve your goalsRegularly reflecting and being kind to yourself – enjoy the path and love life!

BLaz kos

Know

1.. I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.4. I wish I’d stayed in touch with my friends.5. I wish I’d let myself be happier.”

Death bed

Commitment: The more you desire a certain outcome, the more motivation you have to achieve that goal. This is the why behind your daily goals.Clarity: Specific goals give you more focus, increasing the likelihood that you’ll follow through on the goal. Challenge: The best goals require a degree of challenge, but still feel achievable.

 5 principles of effective goal setting -1

Complexity: While a level of challenge is beneficial – overwhelming goals outside of your skill level (or time/availability to complete) can negatively affect your confidence, productivity, and motivation.Feedback: Goal setting is more effective when there is immediate feedback - especially since daily goals are so time sensitive as delayed feedback can really slow down your progress.

5 principles of effective goal setting -2

Holistic life

<ol><li>Cut the nails</li><li>Dental checkup</li><li>Shave and hair cut</li></ol>

Self Care

<ol><li>This too shall pass</li><li>All is well</li><li>All happens for the good</li></ol>

Optimism

<ol><li>Attitude</li><li>Mindset</li><li>Intent</li><li>Learn</li><li>Practice</li><li>Forgive</li><li>Perception</li></ol>

Mental Tools

<ol><li>80/20 rule</li><li>Framing effect</li><li>Recency bias</li><li>The one thing</li><li>Design thinking</li></ol>

Decision Tools

1.  How smart are you?2. What do you have to offer?3. Can you be trusted?

World Wants

<ul><li>Winning the morning by getting up on time, eating a healthy breakfast, and exercising or working</li></ul>o  Having a daily routine because structure keeps the mind balanced and calmo  Paying attention to your sleep, diet, and fitnesso  Diffusing negativity by deep breathing, exercising, focusing on the good, and appreciating the little thingso  Avoiding substances like alcohol or nicotine that distort your emotions and thoughtso  Working toward goals that matter to youo  Keeping an organized environmento  Keeping connected by talking to friends and family

Brings Clarity  

Waking up late and staying in bed watching TV or killing time on the interneto  Running away from stress with behaviors such as watching TV, internet, using drugs or alcoholo  Ignoring your body – not bathing every day, eating unhealthy foods, sleeping at abrupt times, not relaxing with walks, meditation, and resto  Complaining about how you’re unhappy, blaming othersexcessive caffeineo  Staying distracted with television, web surfing etc. Staying aloof from family and friendso  Living in a cluttered roomo  Spending time with lazy and aimless, people different values and goals

Brings Confusion  

Life: The art of directing the Energy for the effort to make an effect for the desired experience in the environment

Life : My definition

<ol><li>Drive to Acquire: the desire to collect material and immaterial things, like a car, or influence.</li><li>Drive to Bond: the desire to be loved and feel valued in our relationships with others.</li><li>Drive to Learn: the desire to satisfy our curiosity.</li><li>Drive to Defend: the desire to protect ourselves, our loved ones and our property.</li><li>Drive to Feel: the desire for emotional experiences like pleasure or excitement.    </li></ol>

Human self Drives

Displacement: acting out on a substitute target. For example, having a bad day at work and taking it our on a partner at home.Projection: a way of denying our own faults or insecurities by projecting them onto someone else, and accusing that other person of those things.Regression: falling into childish behaviors when under stress.Denial: a form of flight from difficult thoughts or emotions and an unwillingness to face the reality of a situation.

Negative Behaviour

Level I – pathological defences (psychotic denial, delusional projection)Level II – immature defences (fantasy, projection, passive aggression, acting out)Level III – neurotic defences (intellectualization, reaction formation, dissociation, displacement, repression)Level IV – mature defences (humour, sublimation, suppression, altruism, anticipation)

Negative Behaviour levels

<ol><li>Negative thinking</li><li>Self-criticism and self-labeling</li><li>Low self-confidence and passive obedience</li><li>Hopelessness and helplessness (not being aware of your personal power)</li><li>Overwhelming yourself and burning yourself out</li><li>Perfectionism</li><li>Fear of failure and fear of success</li><li>Fear of criticism and disapproval (looking for outside confirmation and being spineless)</li><li>Low frustration tolerance</li><li>Guilt and self-blame</li><li>Scarcity mindset</li></ol>

Systems

My WHY

Holistic life

Self

Baskaran N