"We forget to live life by living in the confusions of the world. So, forgetting these complications, taking time out for yourself, start living life with a new perspective and in a new style, because there is only one life. Difficulties keep coming in life, but we should not forget to live life openly, because no one knows when we will take the last breath of our life!

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Personal Development

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Motivation & Inspiration

While thinking about Life...

<ol><li>Focus on your potential instead of your limitations.</li><li>Determine to know the truth about yourself.</li><li> Distinguish between who you are and what you do.</li><li>Find something you like to do and do it well, then do it over and over.</li><li> Replace self criticism with regular, positive self talk.</li><li>Replace fear of failure with clear pictures of yourself functioning successfully and happily.</li><li>Dare to be a little eccentric.</li><li> Make the best possible peace with your parents.</li><li>Determine to integrate the body and spirit.</li><li> Determine to live above neurotic guilt.</li></ol>

Twelve Rules For Building Self Confidence 

11. Cultivate people who help you grow.12. Refuse to allow rejection to keep you from taking the initiative with people

Rules

There is no value judgement more important to man -- no factor more decisive in his psychological development and motivation -- than the estimate he passes on himself.

Our success at friendship, business, sports, love indeed, at nearly every enterprise we attempt is largely determined by our self image. People who have a confidence in their personal worth seem to be magnets for success and happiness. Good things drop into their laps regularly, their relationships are long lasting, their projects are usually carried to completion, and they have a way of enjoying the pleasures that the day brings. To use Blake's phrase, they "catch joy on the wings".

Self Confidence And Discovery Of Joy

On the other hand, some people seem to be magnets for failure and unhappiness. Their plans go awry, they have a way of torpe doing their own successes and nothing seems to work out for them. In the counselling office where I work we see many such persons. In most instances my colleagues and I find that their problems stem from a difficulty with self acceptance. And when we are able to help them gain more confidence, many of their psychological troubles take care of themselves.

Other Side Of Low Confidence 

One of the pleasures of doing counselling over a number of decades is that occasionally one sees former clients who have made remarkable progress. A person with whom I worked many years ago and who has been dropped by my office. I recall the slouched young woman she once was. As she had sat in front of me week after week she had blushed, stumbled in her speech and looked at the floor. Her body language said, "I don't even deserve to be talking to you". She tended to lose jobs, relationship went sour and she had troubles in almost every area of her life. As failures were connected to her.

Can Self Image Be Changed

Now, almost 10 years later, the woman has obviously changed her self estimate, and she is a startlingly transformed woman. She is beautifully poised and her body language telegraphs how good she feels about herself. She talks about animation about the successful business she has started, she is married to a man she loves and she has several long term friends. She has change not only her look but also self confidence and judgement about herself.

Changed Self Image 

I believe fervently in our species and have no patience with the current fashion of running down the human being as a useful part of nature. On the contrary, we are a spectacular, splendid manifestation of life.

....you will know the truth and the truth will set you free.

1. Tapping your Capacities2. Discovering your inner self3. Stepping off the Treadmill4. Aiming for Personal Excellence

Four Fundamentals For Developing Self-confidence 

The only difference between the best performance and the worst performance is the variation in our self talk.

"If you train your mind to search for the positive things about other people, you will be surprised at how many good things you can observe in them and comment upon."

James Joyce's classic novel Ulysses depicts the stream of consciousness moving through the mind of Leopold Bloom and others during a 24 hours period. Joyce's work makes poignantly clear that even when we are not talking to others, we are always carrying on a conversation with ourselves. If I could plug a set of headphones into the minds of my clients and listen in on the statement they make to themselves all day, the majority of them would be negative:" I'm late. My hair looks terrible & ugly. "One good daily exercise for building self Confidence is to practice more friendly inner dialogue.

Improving Your Inner Dialogue

I would like to emphasize that one does not necessarily require a therapist to engage in self discovery . Freud and Jung analyzed themselves, and many of us can do the same. Here are some simple suggestions for learning more about your inner self. 1. Keep a journal 2. Arrange to spend time alone3. Note that things that make you distinctive4. Regularly redefine yourself5. Look for someone in whom you can confide.

Investigating Your Inner Self

Helps readers build inner strength, handle rejection, develop uniqueness, keep flaws in perspective, make friends with one's body, find a place to excel, expand one's network of love and help others become more confident, in a book that includes fascinating stories and anecdotes, showing how to increase self-confidence without falling into the trap of self-worship. Original.

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Books

Discover how you can: build inner strength, handle rejection, develop your uniqueness, keep your flaws in perspective, make friends with your body, find a place to excel, expand your network of love, and help others become more confident. These and other practical guidelines, along with fascinating stories and anecdotes, show how you can increase your self-confidence without falling into the trap of self-worship. A book to help you succeed at being yourself.

Alan Loy McGinnis

Confidence

After lots of hardworking, lots of pain and lots of struggles A small reward, No... Don't want a small reward for big hardwork,I want a Huge Reward.Becoz that's the price of hardwork, sacrifice and unrest nights.

Small rewards is not enough for huge hardwork and sacrifice. 

Life Rewards

"Life is full of problemsSo, just chillEnjoy to fight with it,Enjoy to face Struggles, Becoz without problems Life is taste-less So, be Happy Becoz nobody knows When the Life will End.."

Life struggles are part of the life and problems are way to happiness..

Life problems 

Last one hour or Last one minute,Also, can change the Future.

Future is Unpredictable becoz last one hour or last one minute also can change your Future. As, nobody knows what happens next..., As, nobody knows when or how your Life ends.

Unpredictable 

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Technology & The Future

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Time Management

Time...

HOPE is most powerful thing in world.Becoz, a single hope can make you Live your whole Life, A single hope can make you win over your failure,A single hope can make a person defeat his/her death, A single hope can make you fight for yourself,A single hope can make a Failure into Winner,A single hope can do anything....So, Never Lose Hope!

Hope means A feeling of expectation and desire for a particular thing to happen.Similar words : Aspirations, Desire, Wish, Expectations, Ambition, Aim, Plan, Dreams....

Hope

Hope is an optimistic state of mind that is based on an expectation of positive outcomes with respect to events and circumstances in one's life or the world at large.

Define HOPE

Hope is a key concept in most major world religions often signifying the Hoper believes an individual or a collective group will reach a concept of heaven. In Holy Bible, Hope means A strong and confident expectation of future reward. Titus 1:2Paul the Apostle argued that Chirst was a source of hope for Christians."For in this hope we have been saved". Roman 8:24

Religious...Hope

Life...

I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will guide you with my eye.Psalm 32:8

Jesus Will Guide You

But I say to you not to resist evil: but if one strike thee on thy right cheek, turn to him also the other.Matthew 5:39

God Said..

Be not therefore solicitous for to morrow, for the morrow will be solicitous for itself . Sufficient for the day is the evil thereof .Matthew 6:34

God Says..

The New International Version in a handy, affordable paperback edition.

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Religion & Spirituality

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Mindfulness

Bible English New International Version is an accomplished writer whose work has resonated with readers around the world. Bible English New International Version has published several books that explore a range of topics, from fiction to nonfiction, and has received critical acclaim for the ability to weave compelling narratives. Bible English New International Version's writing style is known for its depth and authenticity, and has earned quite a loyal following of readers.

Bible English New International Version

International Bible Society Staff is an accomplished writer whose work has resonated with readers around the world. International Bible Society Staff has published several books that explore a range of topics, from fiction to nonfiction, and has received critical acclaim for the ability to weave compelling narratives. International Bible Society Staff's writing style is known for its depth and authenticity, and has earned quite a loyal following of readers.

International Bible Society Staff

Holy Bible

Life is full of unexpected things..Nobody knows when death will knock at the door.

Life

Life is not only for people, Life is given to each and every living creatures of the world. But, at Present, "LIFE IS DECREASE AND DEATH IS INCREASE !"Can anyone say WHY???"Today the survival is not just of the people but also of the Planet . So, SAVE PLANET, SAVE LIFE."

LIFE

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Science & Nature

Nature 

It's time to change Disadvantage into Opportunity!Advantages comes once but Disadvantages comes always...!

Life is a race, You will get both Advantages and Disadvantages.But Life is too short to wait for Advantages or wait for Opportunity to knock our door.So, it's time to change DISADVANTAGE INTO OPPORTUNITY.

While thinking about Life...

Confidence

Life Rewards

Life problems

Time...

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