When describing the events we experience, when making a judgment about something, I mean, when thinking briefly, we may make some thinking mistakes psychologically. Errors of thought cause us to see reality differently and often worse than it is. As thought errors continue, they affect our mental health badly and can cause psychological diseases, especially depression, at the end of the day.

Some Thought Errors and Reasonable Answers

Definition : Something terrible is going to happen. The logical answer to fortune-telling : Bad odds are always present, moreover, for everyone. Imagining possible bad scenarios while they are in the event does not allow them to take precautions. To do this work happens during the preparatory period. In addition, when considering bad possibilities, only the high probability of realization that we can intervene are taken into account. To think more is to disconnect from reality.

FORTUNETELLİNG

Definition : Thinking that people judge and underestimate you even though there is no evidence.The logical answer to mind reading is: If you don't know the other person, he doesn't know you either. Although the rate varies depending on the person, everyone approaches the person they don't know with suspicion, maybe a little fear. Before you even talk, instead of imposing a number of meanings and emotions on them, calmly remember these facts.

MIND READING

1. Even if the person sitting in front of you looks aggressive or very strong, he is a mortal person after all. 2. You want to decide how people will see you, you are intimidated by the possibility that they will see you differently. But you can't determine that. You can determine how you look at yourself, how you look at others. The slightest touch cannot be made to the rest. So you understand, you're playing in the wrong arena, change the arena.

MİND READİNG

Definition : Exaggerating the danger.The logical response to excessive magnification : A person usually exaggerates the problems he has experienced for the first time. He is more afraid because he does not know. The solution to this problem is to get help from someone who has experienced this problem before or is currently experiencing it.

EXCESSIVE MAGNIFICATION

Definition : To interpret the truth according to the feeling felt, I mean to show the feeling felt as evidence and comment on the real world, for example, I am afraid, so I am in danger.Logical answer 1 : When a person gets lost in his own thoughts instead of turning to the environment, the mind makes unlimited tides between the past and the future, and a person remains alien to the reality of the situation in Dec. The feeling felt in such a situation is really disconnected and with an intensity incompatible with everyday life.

EMOTIONAL INFERENCE

Logical answer 2: Emotion is actually not something to care about that much. Emotions are uncontrollable. If an interpretation of the truth is to be made, it is done calmly and seriously. Moreover, if we look at my own life from the past to the present, the truth often reveals the lie of emotions. In conclusion, I can say that, being not feelings, but evidence of the truth, they can hardly even agree with each other.

You criticize yourself and other people using phrases such as "it is necessary, it is necessary". For example, "I shouldn't feel embarrassed and nervous like that. What's wrong with me?"The logical answer is : The sentence of necessity is restrictive and ignores willpower by its very nature. What needs to be done is not done, you choose to do what you think is right to do. There are no obligations in this life, there are only consequences, and you are the one who makes a choice taking into account these consequences. As long as you stand behind the choice you made, act however you want.

THE SENTENCE OF OBLIGATION

Definition : You generalize a single mistake or deficiency to your entire identity. Instead of saying "I made a mistake", you label yourself as a "hopeless case". This is an extreme image of overgeneralization.The logical Answer is: Labeling is a mistake. Labeling can be used when defining behaviors, but it is incomplete because labeling a person means ignoring all the other characteristics of that person.

LABELING

Definition : Instead of identifying the cause of the problem, you choose to blame.Rational Answer: Self-blame is a behavior that makes it difficult to analyze and prepare a plan of action. If there is a bad situation, the wrong done and the cost of this wrong are determined. An action plan is prepared and implemented. If there is no mistake, that is, if the other party's reaction has caused this thought, the importance and principles of border protection are remembered, and if necessary, this situation is reminded to the other person.

BLAMING YOURSELF

We can think clearly when thought errors are eliminated.

Understand yourself and those around you.

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Those who succeed in the real world are brave, not smart. We have terrifying potential, we all have innate talents. However, the obstacle to our progress is not our lack of technical knowledge, but our lack of self-confidence.   The biggest factors that dull human genius are fear and self-doubt.

How being brave affects our potential? 

Failure inspires winners. Failure defeats the losers. This is the biggest secret of the winners. Losers are unaware of this. The biggest secret of the winners is that the fiasco gives enthusiasm to win, they are not afraid of losing; because they know who they are. They hate to lose, so they realize that losing will only increase their determination. There's a big difference between hating to lose and being afraid of losing. Most people are so afraid of losing money that they lose it because of it.

Failure gives courage

School has conditioned us to avoid mistakes. Students are punished for making mistakes in school. In real life, mistakes are invaluable if accepted and evaluated and used as tools to make better decisions in the future.

Traditional education system and Fear

Criticism blinds one's eyes, analysis opens one's eyes. Through analysis, winners see the blind spots of the critics and the opportunities everyone misses. The secret to success is to see what everyone is missing.

Fearful people criticize, Winners analyze

Every time I hear people saying "I don't want" instead of saying what they want, I think the "noise" in their head must be very loud. The cowardly chicken has taken over their brains and yells, "We're going to have stones, the toilets aren't working." They take refuge in their reluctance, but they pay a huge price. They may never seize their expectations from life

Courage to Desire and Success

Our success in life is directly proportional to our courage.Your fear of the consequences of a daring act is greater than it really is, and in fact, the consequences of shyness are much worse.

Succes and Courage

1. Accounting2. Investing3. Understanding the market4. Laws

Financial Consciousness 4 Elements

Financial literacy or the ability to read numbers and the ability to assess the strengths and weaknesses of any business

Accounting

Investing

Supply and demand science , market conditions

Understanding the Market

Benefit and protection from taxation.

Laws 

In Rich Dad Poor Dad, the #1 Personal Finance book of all time, Robert Kiyosaki shares the story of his two dad: his real father, whom he calls his poor dad,’ and the father of his best friend, the man who became his mentor and his rich dad.’ One man was well educated and an employee all his life, the other’s education was street smarts” over traditional classroom education and he took the path of entrepreneurship a road that led him to become one of the wealthiest men in Hawaii. Robert’s poor dad struggled financially all his life, and these two dads these very different points of view of money, investing, and employment shaped Robert’s thinking about money.Robert has challenged and changed the way tens of millions of people, around the world, think about money and investing and he has become a global advocate for financial education and the path to financial freedom. Rich Dad Poor Dad (and the Rich Dad series it spawned) has sold over 36 million copies in English and translated editions around the world.Rich Dad Poor Dad will explode the myth that you need to earn a high income to become rich challenge the belief that your house is an asset show parents why they can’t rely on the school system to teach their kidsabout money define, once and for all, an asset and a liability explain the difference between good debt and bad debt teach you to see the world of money from different perspectives discuss the shift in mindset that can put you on the road to financial freedom

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Although we have been successful in our careers, they have not turned out quite as we expected. We both have changed positions several times-for all the right reasons-but there are no pension plans vesting on our behalf. Our retirement funds are growing only through our individual contributions. Michael and I have a wonderful marriage with three great children. As I write this, two are in college and one is just beginning high school. We have spent a fortune making sure our children have received the best education available. One day in 1996, one of my children came home disillusioned with school. He was bored and tired of studying. “Why should I put time into studying subjects I will never use in real life?” he protested. Without thinking, I responded, “Because if you don't get good grades, you won't get into college.” “Regardless of whether I go to college,” he replied, “I'm going to be rich.”

Kiyosaki is best known for his book Rich Dad, Poor Dad, the #1 New York Times bestseller. Kiyosaki followed with Rich Dad's CASHFLOW Quadrant and Rich Dad's Guide to Investing.

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