People plan for success but be confused and oblivious as to how they failed.Below I have compiled some of the main reasons why people may fall short of their goals

The 3 stages of Failure in Life/Work <and how to fix them>

These are HOW mistakes - They occur when you fail to build a set of tasks/ routines or when you forget to measure your growth carefully and get lazy with the details. A failure of Tactics is a failure to execute a good plan and a clear vision

Stage 1: Failure of Tactics

These are WHAT mistakes - They occur when you follow a strategy that fails to provide you with the result you hoped it would provide.A failure of Strategy is a failure to build a robust set of routines

Stage 2: Failure of Strategy

These are WHY mistakes -They occur when you don't set a clear direction for yourself or follow a vision that doesn't fulfill you in the long run or otherwise fail to understand why you do the things you do A failure of Vision is caused due to ignorance or have mediocre views on life

Stage 3: Failure of Vision

There are three primary ways to fix the failure of tactics<ol><li>Record your process/Routine</li><li>Measure your outcomes</li><li>Review and adjust your tactics often</li></ol><ul><li>Recording your process - Recording your process/ Routine gives you an overview of where your routine is failing you and where you can make an improvement </li><li>Measuring your outcome - Measuring your outcomes gives you a binary view of your routine -  Is it working for you or not. This helps you to alter your routine or make a new one altogether</li><li>Review and adjust your tactics - This is the CHANGE THAT TACTIC phase</li></ul>

Fix for - Failure of Tactics

There are three primary ways to fix the failure of tactics<ol><li>Deploy it quickly</li><li>Do it with dedication</li><li>Revise it rapidly</li></ol><ul><li>Deploy it quickly - Once you have a strategy/Routine ready, don't delay in deploying that strategy for the next Monday</li><li>Do it with dedication - Be diligent and trust your routine and follow it every day</li><li>Revise it rapidly -   Always keep an eye on your routine and adjust it as and when needed</li></ul>

Fix for - Failure of Strategy

There are three primary ways to fix the failure of tactics<ol><li>Take charge of your life</li><li>Determine your Non-Negotiable</li><li>Navigate criticism</li></ol><ul><li>Take charge of your life - People, most of the time follow the masses or so-called ideals set by society, parents, or social media, It is time to take charge of your life and set a vision you have for your life</li><li>Determine your Non-Negotiables - Your Non-Negotiables are those things you are not willing to budge on no matter what. This can be your values or your idea of life</li></ul>

Fix for - Failure of Vision

<ul><li>Navigate Criticism - The moment you take charge of life, there will be showers of criticism pouring over you. Navigate criticism with your wit and don't take them seriously unless otherwise, it is truly for your benefit and you find sense in it.</li><li> Explain your ideas to your parents and mentors only don't bother about anyone else</li></ul>

Fix for - Failure of Vision 

These ideas give me an idea of how i failed and tips on solving them

How do you know when to give up and accept failure and when to stick with your efforts in life and work? Read the article to learn more.

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The 3 Stages of Failure in Life and Work

You have an estimated 70,000 thoughts per day. That's 70,000 chances to build yourself up or tear yourself down. If you call yourself names, doubt your abilities and second-guess your decisions, you'll harm your performance (and most likely you'll also be risking your physical and psychological health). But the good news is, you can change the way you think.

Thoughts

<ol><li>Differentiate between ruminating and problem-solving.</li><li>Give yourself the same advice you'd give to a trusted friend.</li><li>Label your emotions.</li><li>Balance your emotions with logic.</li><li>Practice gratitude.</li></ol>

The Five Exercises

Thinking about strategies that would help you overcome an obstacle is helpful, but imagining yourself unable to tolerate pain isn't productive. Whenever you find yourself thinking about something for an extended time, take a minute to think whether you're ruminating or problem-solving. If you're actively solving or preventing problems, keep processing. But, if you're simply rehashing things that already happened or making catastrophic predictions about things you can't control, change the channel.

Differentiate between ruminating and problem-solving

If you're like most people, there's a good chance you're overly critical of yourself. But beating yourself up and magnifying your mistakes will only drag you down. Studies have linked self-compassion to everything from improved psychological well-being and better body image to enhanced self-worth and increased motivation. So make it a habit to speak to yourself in the same way you'd speak to a trusted friend.

Give yourself the same advice you'd give to a trusted friend

Most people have an aversion to talking about or showing their feelings. As a result, many people have become quite distanced from their feelings, which makes it hard for them to even recognize how they're feeling in any given moment Spend a few minutes every day acknowledging your emotional state Label your feelings and consider how those emotions are likely to affect your decisions. Whether you're feeling sad about something in your personal life or you're worried about something going on in the office, your emotions will spill over into other areas of your life if you aren't aware of them.

Label your emotions

Whether you're faced with a tough financial decision, or you're experiencing a family dilemma, you'll make your best decisions when you're able to balance your emotions with logic. When your emotions are running high, take steps to increase your rational thinking. The best way to balance out your emotions is to create a list of the pros and cons of your choices. Reading over that list can help take some of the emotion out of the decision and equip you to make the best decisions.

Balance your emotions with logic

Gratitude has been linked to a host of physical and psychological benefits, including happiness. One study even found that grateful people are 25 percent happier. So whether you make it a habit to talk about what you're grateful for over breakfast every morning, or you write in a gratitude journal before bed, train your brain to look for the good in life. It could be the simplest, yet most effective way to boost your well-being.

Practice gratitude

Create a Healthy Mindset The conversations you have with yourself have a profound effect on your life. If you want to reach your greatest potential, it's important to build your mental muscle. Exercise your brain every day and over time, you'll train your brain for happiness and success.

The 3 Stages of Failure in Life and Work

5 Exercises That Will Train Your Brain for Happiness and Success

Tejash Vhavle