I have a heavy burden in my heart, it is as a result of the gaps and inconsistencies in my life. My results show the evidence of my input which is negligible. I can't fake this growth I claim to have.

The Beauty In process

Process carries a placard in the end which are results; all can see this, it doesn't hide. How then can I close the gaps to make my result as I intend; to be consistent with my head knowledge of growth tallying alongside my actions?

What Then Is The Gap

Building castles in the air is an effortless quest that occurs in the mind. I can know the truth and it still doesn't set me free as the good book says. So, what makes the difference

The Truth

Keyword; Consciousness. The consciousness of the truth makes the difference. Knowledge most times can become passive. Tangibly, the truth we know can become a lie when we aren't reminded of it's value by being conscious of it.

Consciousness 

The step further is another keyword, deliberacy. Process to yield the result we desire is an active input of consciousness and deliberacy. This means that, I must remind myself of where I ought to go or who I am then fuel it by action and making sure it works.

Deliberacy 

The end result then surely will tally. But the worthwhile treasure really wasn't the result gotten, but the process endured to yield such output. Only then do we achieve true contentment in self.

Result 

Sometimes, it's more about the journey than the destination

Give life more meaning by enjoying the process 

Understand yourself and those around you.

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Psychology

mindfulness

Mindfulness

health

Health

podcasts

Podcasts

Life's journey 

Your happiness is not people. It never has being. If you accustom your best days to be the days when someone talks to you or something external gives you that spike, then you are the weakest version of you.Believe me, the best of your days are solely from you and your energy or what you define as your happiness. Basically, happiness is what you make it not the thing or person who stirs it. True fact is that, some people actually make happiness effortless but it's riskier when they solely provide your happiness.

Happiness Isn't A Chance Thing!

The best of things in our lives are things we deliberately work on not what we leave to chance or people. This covers all aspect, work, happiness, faith, relationships, academics etc

We Find It By Working On It

People try to chase happiness with a chance or wish approach when it is actually a deliberate experience 

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Philosophy

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Religion & Spirituality

loveandrelationships

Love & Relationships

Human relations 

I had a school of thought that without depth there isn't friendship, but I realized that sometimes, depth might just be a void in disguise; empty of love, care, and emotions. I have received the most affection from people who I did not expect to have such emotional intelligence and those who you hope to come through on your bad days do not have the words as put together as you'd expect. Bottom line is, never set a standard for friendship, be as open to as many kinds of happiness as you can find. Some boundaries and expectation cage you in, break out now!

Friendship devoid Of Standards

We as humans like plans, standard and structure because it gives us some sort of order. What  happens when we can't get anyone to fit in our standards? Should it feel chaotic? Or should we stop planning?

communication

Communication

Why friendship is so hard?

Going to school doesn't necessarily mean you are educated. This modern age has shown the true product of an educated mind; the ability to constantly commit to reforming your mind which is a never-ending process. Certification doesn't count as education, it never has. That's why competence has never been proven through a certificate and repetitive monotonous jobs only decay our minds.

The True asset Is Education not Certifications

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Productivity

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Learning & Education

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Meditation

Mindset

Understand what friendship means; it is a commitment to care. This means even when I don't feel like being a friend, I will always care. Most people believe it is a reciprocal process of giving and expecting to receive same love but it's not even close. Friendship is an intention. One initiated out of deliberation but here is the funniest thing, you will have to scrap out expectations from this intention. The only justification for expectations is marriage, outside that, no one owes you anything, not even one you give your life for.

Friendship Demystified.

Every human has a support system essential for productivity. Most people consider individuality solely to drive to the apex but the term "individuality" gets its meaning at every stage of life through interaction with people.

Life's journey

Human relations

Why friendship is so hard?

Mindset

Human relations

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