<ul><li>Love, at first sight, is never love, it’s mere attraction towards physical appearance, which is Lust.</li><li>Lust will eventually fade away once the physical needs are satisfied.</li><li>Aren't we all walking on the thin line between Love & Lust?</li></ul>

Love vs. Lust

<ul><li>Love takes time to grow on someone, it's more like planting a tree.</li><li>Every relationship requires a strong root of emotional bonding.</li><li>Honesty, Looking out for each other, Valuable Sacrifices, fuel the tree to grow strong and spread its roots deeper & stronger.</li></ul>

The Seed of Love

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I'm afraid to love again, will I lose again if I love.?It's not traumatic, it's not depression (I believe it is not).But throughout my life, I have knocked on the wrong door seeking love, made bad decisions thinking of imaginary narratives. I always thought of happy endings and created a storyline in my mind where…

Understand yourself and those around you.

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Why Relationship Fail? What are you doing wrong in Love?

The answer is very simple - MONEY.It doesn't matter which part of the world you are from, most of us are taught from a very early age to study well and get a job that pays us well.

Why do a Job which you hate?

The fear of dreams becoming nightmares is what stops people from stepping out of their comfort zone.The meaning of life is defined differently depending on where you are born, which religion you follow and what you are taught.Will you succeed on your own? Will you get another job? Will you be able to make money without a job?You will only know if you step out of your comfort zone.

What‘s stopping you from Quitting the job you hate?

Drugs are confused mostly to escape reality.To aquire money we spend our time working for or under someone.In reality we exchange our Time & Freedom.Your TIME is your FREEDOM, when you are exchanging your TIME for MONEY, somebody else is paying you that MONEY so they can save their TIME and make more MONEY than you are making .

The drug called Money

there are many reasons why people hate their jobs. Most of them hate their job but do not know what else to do.

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I hate my job.!! Do you hate your job or hate working?

<ul><li>The human brain is the most complicated system in this universe</li><li>Even scientists admit that - one doesn't completely understand the function of our brain, you just simply use it.</li><li>The human brain has a default mode network that functions when we are idle</li><li>Yes, our brain has a default mode of resting more which will be inactive when we are performing certain tasks, i.e, for instance - when you are working, checking your phone or email, doing any task certain parts of our brains will be at rest.</li><li>Now when we are doing nothing, the resting-state mode will be active in mind- wandering and daydreaming.</li></ul>

The Default Mode in Human Brain

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">An idle mind is the devil's playground they say.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">What comes into our consciousness when we are idle can often report from the depth of our unconscious</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Through idleness, great ideas buried in your unconscious have the chance to enter your awareness.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Resting our brain is vital to brain health & decreases the chances of brain-related diseases.</li></ul>

Idleness is important

The default mode network allows us to process information that is related to social relationships, or place in the wider world, fantasies we have about the future, and of course emotionsIt's simple to activate Default Mode-Find a pillow, lie back and let go of task-oriented activity. Look at great art, listen to your favorite music, just simply lie down on the grass and see the sky or just sit & meditate.It's doesn't matter what thoughts run in your mind, whatever it is - your brain is projecting data based on what you have seen, heard, & learned."The only journey is the one within"

Active Default Mode

Andrew Smart wants you to sit and do nothing much more often – and he has the science to explain why. At every turn we’re pushed to do more, faster and more efficiently: that drumbeat resounds throughout our wage-slave society. Multitasking is not only a virtue, it’s a necessity. Books such as Getting Things Done, The One Minute Manager, and The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People regularly top the bestseller lists, and have spawned a considerable industry. But Andrew Smart argues that slackers may have the last laugh. The latest neuroscience shows that the “culture of effectiveness” is not only ineffective, it can be harmful to your well-being. He makes a compelling case – backed by science – that filling life with activity at work and at home actually hurts your brain. A survivor of corporate-mandated “Six Sigma” training to improve efficiency, Smart has channeled a self-described “loathing” of the time-management industry into a witty, informative and wide-ranging book that draws on the most recent research into brain power. Use it to explain to bosses, family, and friends why you need to relax – right now.

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Books

Andrew Smart wants you to sit and do nothing much more often – and he has the science to explain why.At every turn we’re pushed to do more, faster and more efficiently: that drumbeat resounds throughout our wage-slave society. Multitasking is not only a virtue, it’s a necessity. Books such as Getting Things Done, The One Minute Manager, and The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People regularly top the bestseller lists, and have spawned a considerable industry.But Andrew Smart argues that slackers may have the last laugh. The latest neuroscience shows that the “culture of effectiveness” is not only ineffective, it can be harmful to your well-being. He makes a compelling case – backed by science – that filling life with activity at work and at home actually hurts your brain.A survivor of corporate-mandated “Six Sigma” training to improve efficiency, Smart has channeled a self-described “loathing” of the time-management industry into a witty, informative and wide-ranging book that draws on the most recent research into brain power. Use it to explain to bosses, family, and friends why you need to relax – right now.

Andrew Smart

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<ul><li>The most controversial debate in and part of the world will be - Does God exist.</li><li>There are over 4 .6 k religion on this planet, so that is a never ending debate.</li><li>The question the existence of God &amp; start debate on what would God want us to do.</li></ul>

The Existence of God. !!

When we summarize the principles of the most commonly practiced religion around the globe, in one way the other the message is same.<ul><li>Be truthful to yourself and others.</li><li>Share Love and be kind to all living beings.</li><li>Everyone is equal, respect and treat every living being equally.</li><li>Selflessness is the greatest character.</li><li>Don’t Kill, Don’t steal, Don’t lie, Don’t Cheat</li><li>Actions will dictate the consequences.</li></ul>Is it really necessary to discriminate people by religion, race, caste, color or gender.When all God want for us is Peace &amp; Happiness

What would God want from us?

The idea is not to entirely ignore all the religious practices,but to forgo all those practices which force an individual to act against their will, and idea of Life.<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">If a man/women want to love and live with other man/women, them then be.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">If a person choose to wear clothes of his/her choice, let them be.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">If someone like to eating meat, let them be.</li></ul>Everyone has the right to choose how they want to survive.The most ideal religion for us is HUMANITY.﻿You can be a devotee, but do not force Me to be one if I don’t want to.&nbsp;You can be an atheist but do not force Me to be one if I don’t want to.

The Human religion

we are all entitled to live free and equal

There is a God in every nook and corner of the world, are we respecting that God? Do we even realize that there is God within us? Does God Exist? Are we all blinded by religions?

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Who is God, and what does God want us to do?

As a kid, each of us had different dreams about how we wanted our future to be.But down the lane, most of us tend to deviate from that.We learn new things as we grow up, and some of them become part of our habits.If we look back most of us have cultivated certain habits which we hated other people see doing.

Things we forget as we grow up

Where a person grew up, with whom they grew up, will have a great influence on thier character, the way they speak &amp; how they carry themselves.At certain age when we attain mental and physical maturity, we realize that some of the things and people we idolize are not exactly what we need to build our life on.This realization can be an advantage or a disadvantage based on our mindset.

Realisation

Think of things you wanted to become when you were a kid and see where you are now.Are you happy? If not, you are never too late.You are the owner of your life, you can sell it, rent it, let it wear away, likewise you can rebuild it. Even if it is for one day, live the life which you dreamed for, cause, in the end, nothing matters.

As we grow up all of us had different types of desires, about our future, what we want to become, with what kind of people we should spend life with, and so on. One would be really lucky if all those had come true once he/she becomes an adult. But down the lane, we tend…

Things we forget as we grow up- Alcohol habits

<ul><li>Patience is one of the difficult qualities to master and maintain at every level.</li><li>The level of patience differs from situation to situation.</li><li>People who are concerned about quality have more patience than quantity-centered people.</li><li>Thus, Patience is a process of Quality, or Patience results in a Quality product.</li></ul>

Patience ; do we have it.?

<ul><li>If given a price worth waiting, people will naturally demonstrate Patience.</li><li>But that often creates high expectations, which may lead to misconceptions.</li><li>Patience combined with an awareness of the situation is the key.</li><li>We live in a fast-moving world & we are habituated to getting things at our fingertips.</li><li>Identify what is worth waiting, and what can wait for you.</li></ul>

The Price of Patience.

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Plant a seed, watch it grow.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Everything has a purpose in nature, depending on the value of the end product it will take time to mature, even we do.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">We have the luxury of choice to select or change our purpose depending on our preference & lifestyle.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Once you identify what you want patience will naturally grow on you.</li></ul>

Learn Patience from Nature

Patience; The First Law of Nature.

<ul><li>Past is a memory that is gone in time</li><li>But we only remember or our mind will only remind us of moments that brought us tremendous joy or terrible misery.</li><li>Some people take positives and find ways to improve themselves</li><li>Some others live through the same mistakes over and over again, thinking it's thier fate.</li><li>Whatever happened in our past was due to the decisions we made in situations we felt were favorable to us and by foreseeing a better future.</li></ul>

Is past a curse or blessing?

<ul><li>Past is not a burden, but a learning curve.</li><li>Mistakes are not be repeated but rectified.</li><li>We can only do that if we believe "whatever has to happen will happen, yet life must go on"</li><li>Everyone is living a life which some else wishes they could live.</li><li>Make most of it, “past is not a curse but a blessing” to make things right the next time.</li></ul>

Everything that has happened to us good or bad all are in the past, we travel to our past on several occasions through memories inside our mind about the moments and experiences, for some people they believe it’s a circle they can never come out from, but why do we think about the past when…

past, a curse or blessing?

<ul><li>What ever have happened in our life is the result of choices we made during the moment of happiness or suffering.</li><li>We do not know what is the meaning of life, but we know the most important thing in life is surving.</li><li>The basics of survival is to satisfy our needs of food and shelter, but we have fell deep down to the world of luxury.</li><li>We have a choice to survive by helping others and ourselves to achieve the basic needs of life. But we are in a race to become the best, in this meaningless life.</li></ul>

The Choice of life

Every human has power, physical and psychological. But we all have common power, the power of Choice.

Why Relationship Fail? What are you doing wrong in Love?

I hate my job.!! Do you hate your job or hate working?

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Who is God, and what does God want us to do?

Things we forget as we grow up- Alcohol habits

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