It is what it sounds like: suddenly disappearing (from a relationship); like a ghost.The term is usually used in the context of a (burgeoning) romantic relationship, but it happens in (long term) friendships as well.Emotionally stunted people do this because it's easy.<ul><li>They fear confrontation and don't know what healthy communication looks like.</li><li>They have already mentally moved on and just stop talking to avoid the difficult conversation.</li><li>They lack empathy and understanding.</li></ul>

What Is Ghosting And Why Do People Do It?

Being ghosted is hurtful. No matter if you know someone for a short or a long period of time.Loving someone or having deep real (even platonic) feelings for them, can make it intensely painful and will most likely leave long-term (mental) scars.Effects are:<ul><li>At best - being confused, self-conscious and concerned.</li><li>At worst - doubting and questioning your self-worth, having lots of unanswered questions and getting no closure.</li></ul>You would feel discarded or thrown out. It's the most painful thing a human can experience.

Effects Of Being Ghosted

ABOUT THINKING GHOSTING IS A GOOD THING TO DO"It’s a lie you are telling yourself—you are pretending like someone is not hurt when they really are."

<ol><li>Use direct communication, no matter how hard it is. It will provide a sense of closure and finality.</li><li>Do it in person. This way both participants will feel heard.</li><li>Do it at a respectable time. For instance, don't do it right before someone has to go to work.</li><li>Practise before or write it down. This way you can keep your thoughts clear.</li><li>Use "I" statements. Keep the focus on how YOU feel, not what they might have done wrong.</li><li>Give kind feedback if someone wants questions answered.</li><li>Accept that it will hurt for both you and them. And that's okay.</li></ol>

What To Do Instead Of Ghosting Someone?

WHEN GHOSTING ÍS NEEDED"If you are ending a relationship where you are worried that your partner will react in a violent or abusive way: Put your safety first and in the case of abuse, ghosting is often the best and safest option."

Ghosting is when you disappear from someone's life without any explanation. Here's why people do it, the effects, and better ways to end it.

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GHOSTING It destroys someone's self worth, all because one person was to afraid to have an uncomfortable difficult conversation.

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