Thomas J. Stanley, the author of the book The Millionaire Next Door, studied over 1,000 millionaires and found that 80% of millionaires didn't inherit their wealth. They built it. The first step in building wealth is more personal than building millionaire habits or investing wisely. It is to change or build your mindset that encourages wealth. That means you believe that you can access wealth.

You are worthy of wealth

For many, it requires effort to develop a mindset believing that there are enough resources and opportunities for everyone. This is more true for those who grew up with limited resources. Studies show that our financial habits are formed by age seven. It means that our feelings about money are influenced by how people around us talk and behave with money. Before becoming a millionaire, we should rewire our brains to expect abundance. This means we should pay attention to our thoughts, then choose to entertain different ones.

Let go of limiting beliefs

Many people will stop themselves from desiring wealth because they believe that money is the root of all evil. But understanding that you can use your money to help others can be a game-changer. Money can do as much good as it can evil. Don’t let fear stop you from pursuing wealth.

Accept that money is not always evil

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		The first step to attaining wealth — at least for people who are not born into it — is much more personal than building&nbsp;millionaire habits&nbsp;or&nbsp;investing wisely. Such approaches often fail to address the systemic and mental barriers faced by many of the marginalized...<button dir="ltr">more</button>
	</div><img src="https://hbr.org/resources/images/article_assets/2020/10/Ascend_Logo_2020_2x.png" alt="Ascend logo" width="105" height="25">Where your work meets your life. See more from Ascend <a href="https://hbr.org/insight-center/ascend" dir="ltr">here</a>.Do you want to be a millionaire? Most people probably do — but it is, famously, not an easy pursuit. The <a href="https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2020/02/07/6-facts-about-economic-inequality-in-the-u-s/" dir="ltr">growing wealth gap between the rich and the poor</a> makes it seem impossible for most of us.According to a recent <a href="https://www.credit-suisse.com/about-us/en/reports-research/global-wealth-report.html" dir="ltr">Credit Suisse Global Wealth Report</a>, millionaires represent less than 9% of the United States population. Even so, the same report notes that in 2020 alone, there were 1.7 new millionaires in the U.S. According to business theorist Thomas J. Stanley who studied more than 1,000 millionaires for his book The Millionaire Next Door,&nbsp;<a href="https://www.businessinsider.com/personal-finance/millionaire-spending-habits-millionaire-next-door-2020-11" dir="ltr">80% of U.S. millionaires</a> are first-generation “rich.” That means they didn’t inherit their wealth, but built it.These statistics have made me wonder what it takes for a person to overcome humble beginnings and achieve the “American Dream.” What does it take to become a millionaire when you don’t come from money?After interviewing dozens of <a href="https://link.chtbl.com/GT-lu9d7" dir="ltr">unlikely millionaires</a>, I believe the first step to attaining wealth — at least for people who are not born into it — is much more personal than building millionaire habits or investing wisely. Such approaches often fail to address the systemic and mental barriers faced by many of the marginalized groups who grew up without access to wealth.Rather, I would argue that changing your mindset or building a mindset conducive to wealth, is the first step to attaining it. This means believing that wealth is accessible to you and believing that you are worthy of wealth despite the systems designed to keep it from you. Without that &nbsp;mental drive, the other strategies are basically moot.To learn more about how to achieve this mindset, I interviewed two Black women multi-millionaires under 40. Rachel Rodgers, CEO of <a href="https://helloseven.co/" dir="ltr">Hello Seven</a> and author of We Should All Be Millionaires, and <a href="https://teriijeoma.com/" dir="ltr">Teri Ijeoma</a>, an assistant professor, turned trader who has sold $30 million in online courses.I also spoke with two financial professionals who work with many first-generation wealth builders, <a href="https://www.blackenterprise.com/lessons-from-michelle-richburg-the-business-manager-helping-entertainment-and-sports-professionals-build-lasting-wealth/" dir="ltr">Michelle Richburg</a>, founder of <a href="https://richburgenterprisesllc.com/" dir="ltr">Richburg Enterprises</a>, and certified financial planner <a href="https://www.marketwatch.com/story/this-financial-advisers-family-inherited-1-4-million-and-quickly-lost-it-all-i-promised-myself-id-never-be-that-broke-again-11635745606" dir="ltr">Jacqueline Schadeck</a>.Here’s what I learned from our conversations.<h2>Let go of limiting beliefs.</h2>For most of us, developing an abundance mindset, or believing that there are enough resources and opportunities for everyone, requires an intentional effort. This is even more true for those who grew up with limited resources and less access to wealth.According to a study conducted at <a href="https://www.pbs.org/newshour/economy/making-sense/money-habits-are-set-by-age-7-teach-your-kids-the-value-of-a-dollar-now" dir="ltr">Purdue University</a>, many of our financial habits are formed by age seven. That means our feelings about money are largely influenced by how people around us talked about or behaved around it. When you grow up lacking money or the resources to make enough of it, thinking that there is a shortage of resources, or watching people around you live paycheck to paycheck — you may be more likely to believe that wealth is reserved for a select few. You are also not entirely wrong.Many of the systems and institutions we use to build wealth were designed to keep marginalized people from escaping the <a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2014/04/the-source-of-black-poverty-isnt-black-culture-its-american-culture/359937/" dir="ltr">poverty America trapped them in</a>. If you identify with <a href="https://www.oxfordhandbooks.com/view/10.1093/oxfordhb/9780199914050.001.0001/oxfordhb-9780199914050-e-7" dir="ltr">one of these communities,</a> this may naturally impact your mindset. It takes more work to expect abundance when you don’t see it around you.“Every day, many negative thoughts race through our minds. If we don’t learn how to filter those thoughts, we start to believe them. Eventually, they can lead to a scarcity mindset, which leads to scarcity actions, or what I call broke-ass decisions,” said Rachel Rodgers.Rodgers doesn’t believe in ignoring our negative experiences. Instead she suggests using them as fuel to help us build a better future. “For example, changing your thoughts is not going to make racism or violence against Black people end,” Rodgers said. “Racism presents many challenges and obstacles to our ability to build wealth. That said, we can work with our thoughts to choose a more effective and empowering response to the racism we experience. Our anger can be a powerful fuel for action.”Rodgers believes in rewiring our brains to expect abundance, and emphasized the importance of making <a href="https://www.goodmorningamerica.com/living/story/millionaires-author-rachel-rodgers-shares-daily-money-habits-82336964" dir="ltr">million-dollar decisions</a> before becoming a millionaire. This involves doing some thought work, or in Rodgers’ words, “the act of consciously paying attention to your thoughts and then choosing to entertain different ones instead.” She recommends practicing this on a daily basis.“Even though I run an eight-figure business, I do thought work every single day,” she said. “When you think more positively about yourself, your work, your intelligence, and your financial decisions, you will start taking more positive actions. Eventually, after some practice, it can change your life for the better.”According to Rodgers, million-dollars decisions create time, energy, and options. When you apply for a job, receive an offer, and make a counteroffer because you know your worth, you are making a million-dollar decision. When you are proactive about asking for a raise, researching industry rates, and making a case to your boss, you are making a million-dollar decision — as opposed to growing overwhelmed and not acting at all.Ultimately, your mindset can lead to big missed opportunities if you don’t change it and believe that — no matter where you’re starting from — you deserve abundance.<h2 dir="ltr">Accept that money is not always evil.</h2>We’ve all heard the saying that “money is the root of all evil.” Many people — especially those who have negative formative experiences with it — will stop themselves from desiring wealth because of that belief. But understanding that you can use your money to do good in the world can be a game-changer.Teri Ijeoma, who started her career working in education and non-profits, told me that, for a long time, she believed&nbsp;she had to work in a church to serve others. It wasn’t until she built wealth by trading and started teaching people how to trade for financial security, that she realized there were other ways to give back to her community. Today, she uses her money to help others gain access to education, and in turn, have a greater chance of accessing financial freedom like her.Similarly, Rodgers initially went to law school because she wanted to work for a nonprofit, doing advocacy work for marginalized communities. “The pressures from family members and my student loan debt eventually pushed me to give up on my dream for the sake of making money. I flew all around the country, interviewing for jobs I didn’t want. I wound up being offered an associate attorney position at a firm that represented Big Oil companies.”Ultimately, Rodgers’ belief that she could find a greater balance between earning and giving drove her to turn down the position and launch her own business. She credits her decision to her Aunt Barbara, who paid the balance on her college tuition, and the parents of a girl she used to babysit, for making her realize that all rich people were not evil. “Now, with my business, I help thousands of women and other members of underrepresented communities to increase their earning potential — and I make millions doing it.”The big takeaway? Money can do as much good as it can evil. Don’t let fear stop you from pursuing wealth, or the kind of paycheck you need to support you and what you want to accomplish in your lifetime. That would be akin to giving up before you even begin.<div>
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Do you want to be a millionaire? Most peopleprobably do — but it is, famously, not an easy pursuit. The <a href="https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2020/02/07/6-facts-about-economic-inequality-in-the-u-s/">growing wealth gap between the rich and the poor </a>makes it seem impossible for most of us.

According to a recent <a href="https://www.credit-suisse.com/about-us/en/reports-research/global-wealth-report.html">Credit Suisse Global Wealth Report </a>, millionaires represent less than 9% of the United States population. Even so, the same report notes that in 2020 alone, there were 1.7 new millionaires in the U.S. According to business theorist Thomas J. Stanley who studied more than 1,000 millionaires for his book The Millionaire Next Door , <a href="https://www.businessinsider.com/personal-finance/millionaire-spending-habits-millionaire-next-door-2020-11">80% of U.S. millionaires </a>are first-generation “rich.” That means they didn’t inherit their wealth, but built it.

These statistics have made me wonder what it takes for a person to overcome humble beginnings and achieve the “American Dream.” What does it take to become a millionaire when you don’t come from money?

After interviewing dozens of <a href="https://link.chtbl.com/GT-lu9d7">unlikely millionaires </a>, I believe the first step to attaining wealth — at least for people who are not born into it — is much more personal than building millionaire habits or investing wisely. Such approaches often fail to address the systemic and mental barriers faced by many of the marginalized groups who grew up without access to wealth.

Rather, I would argue that changing your mindset or building a mindset conducive to wealth, is the first step to attaining it. This means believing that wealth is accessible to you and believing that you are worthy of wealth despite the systems designed to keep it from you. Without that  mental drive, the other strategies are basically moot.

To learn more about how to achieve this mindset, I interviewed two Black women multi-millionaires under 40. Rachel Rodgers, CEO of <a href="https://helloseven.co/">Hello Seven </a>and author of We Should All Be Millionaires , and <a href="https://teriijeoma.com/">Teri Ijeoma </a>, an assistant professor, turned trader who has sold $30 million in online courses.

I also spoke with two financial professionals who work with many first-generation wealth builders, <a href="https://www.blackenterprise.com/lessons-from-michelle-richburg-the-business-manager-helping-entertainment-and-sports-professionals-build-lasting-wealth/">Michelle Richburg </a>, founder of <a href="https://richburgenterprisesllc.com/">Richburg Enterprises </a>, and certified financial planner <a href="https://www.marketwatch.com/story/this-financial-advisers-family-inherited-1-4-million-and-quickly-lost-it-all-i-promised-myself-id-never-be-that-broke-again-11635745606">Jacqueline Schadeck </a>.

Here’s what I learned from our conversations.

For most of us, developing an abundance mindset, or believing that there are enough resources and opportunities for everyone, requires an intentional effort. This is even more true for those who grew up with limited resources and less access to wealth.

According to a study conducted at <a href="https://www.pbs.org/newshour/economy/making-sense/money-habits-are-set-by-age-7-teach-your-kids-the-value-of-a-dollar-now">Purdue University </a>, many of our financial habits are formed by age seven. That means our feelings about money are largely influenced by how people around us talked about or behaved around it. When you grow up lacking money or the resources to make enough of it, thinking that there is a shortage of resources, or watching people around you live paycheck to paycheck — you may be more likely to believe that wealth is reserved for a select few. You are also not entirely wrong.

Many of the systems and institutions we use to build wealth were designed to keep marginalized people from escaping the <a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2014/04/the-source-of-black-poverty-isnt-black-culture-its-american-culture/359937/">poverty America trapped them in </a>. If you identify with <a href="https://www.oxfordhandbooks.com/view/10.1093/oxfordhb/9780199914050.001.0001/oxfordhb-9780199914050-e-7">one of these communities, </a>this may naturally impact your mindset. It takes more work to expect abundance when you don’t see it around you.

“Every day, many negative thoughts race through our minds. If we don’t learn how to filter those thoughts, we start to believe them. Eventually, they can lead to a scarcity mindset, which leads to scarcity actions, or what I call broke-ass decisions,” said Rachel Rodgers.

Rodgers doesn’t believe in ignoring our negative experiences. Instead she suggests using them as fuel to help us build a better future. “For example, changing your thoughts is not going to make racism or violence against Black people end,” Rodgers said. “Racism presents many challenges and obstacles to our ability to build wealth. That said, we can work with our thoughts to choose a more effective and empowering response to the racism we experience. Our anger can be a powerful fuel for action.”

Rodgers believes in rewiring our brains to expect abundance, and emphasized the importance of making <a href="https://www.goodmorningamerica.com/living/story/millionaires-author-rachel-rodgers-shares-daily-money-habits-82336964">million-dollar decisions </a>before becoming a millionaire. This involves doing some thought work, or in Rodgers’ words, “the act of consciously paying attention to your thoughts and then choosing to entertain different ones instead.” She recommends practicing this on a daily basis.

“Even though I run an eight-figure business, I do thought work every single day,” she said. “When you think more positively about yourself, your work, your intelligence, and your financial decisions, you will start taking more positive actions. Eventually, after some practice, it can change your life for the better.”

According to Rodgers, million-dollars decisions create time, energy, and options. When you apply for a job, receive an offer, and make a counteroffer because you know your worth, you are making a million-dollar decision. When you are proactive about asking for a raise, researching industry rates, and making a case to your boss, you are making a million-dollar decision — as opposed to growing overwhelmed and not acting at all.

Ultimately, your mindset can lead to big missed opportunities if you don’t change it and believe that — no matter where you’re starting from — you deserve abundance.

We’ve all heard the saying that “money is the root of all evil.” Many people — especially those who have negative formative experiences with it — will stop themselves from desiring wealth because of that belief. But understanding that you can use your money to do good in the world can be a game-changer.

Teri Ijeoma, who started her career working in education and non-profits, told me that, for a long time, she believed she had to work in a church to serve others. It wasn’t until she built wealth by trading and started teaching people how to trade for financial security, that she realized there were other ways to give back to her community. Today, she uses her money to help others gain access to education, and in turn, have a greater chance of accessing financial freedom like her.

Similarly, Rodgers initially went to law school because she wanted to work for a nonprofit, doing advocacy work for marginalized communities. “The pressures from family members and my student loan debt eventually pushed me to give up on my dream for the sake of making money. I flew all around the country, interviewing for jobs I didn’t want. I wound up being offered an associate attorney position at a firm that represented Big Oil companies.”

Ultimately, Rodgers’ belief that she could find a greater balance between earning and giving drove her to turn down the position and launch her own business. She credits her decision to her Aunt Barbara, who paid the balance on her college tuition, and the parents of a girl she used to babysit, for making her realize that all rich people were not evil. “Now, with my business, I help thousands of women and other members of underrepresented communities to increase their earning potential — and I make millions doing it.”

The big takeaway? Money can do as much good as it can evil. Don’t let fear stop you from pursuing wealth, or the kind of paycheck you need to support you and what you want to accomplish in your lifetime. That would be akin to giving up before you even begin.

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