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Ways To Protect yourself against Domestic Violence.
Dear women, here are 6 ways to protect yourself against Domestic violence.
1. Understand that a man that's violent to you doesn't love you. Some women say stuff like "he loves me, I made him mad that's why he hit me". Bullshit! He loves himself, doesn't he? Do you see him hitting his head on the wall when he's angry at himself?... So why fool yourself. A man that truly loves you wouldn't have the guts to beat you up.
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2. If he hit you once, don't let it happen again. I mean if he's violent against you for the first time don't accept the "I'm sorry, it won't happen again"...Okay maybe you can accept the apology. But don't dare continue the relationship. Cuz abuse men don't change, they never really learn their lessons and most of them don't regret thier actions. So continuing the relationship is like giving him a chance to do it again...and again... and again...till violence against you becomes the most consistent aspect of your relationship.
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3. If you don't want violence, don't be violent. Don't hit a guy if you don't want him to hit you. Don't slap your man thinking he shouldn't slap you back cuz he's supposed to be "a gentleman". That's not a way to treat a gentleman.
4. If he's naturally vicious, don't even date him. Vicious people are naturally aggressive and mean and callous and merciless and brutal in the way they treat people and handle things. A vicious person doesn't feel pity or show remorse. There's a high chance somebody like this will beat you up and still feel good about it.
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5. If he drinks or takes drugs, don't have any love relationship with him. Because there's a high probability he'll be violent. And if he's high or drunk one day and y'all get into an argument, he might become violent and hit you without realizing it.
6. Work hard and make your own money. A lot of girls/women are stuck in abusive relationships cuz of money. They know if they leave or talk, they'll lose the financial support that comes from the guy/man. So if you don't want to be in this situation, work hard and be financially independent.
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I want to see a world where everyone is free from all sorts of domestic violence.
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