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How To Be More Likable In Social Settings
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Tips for being more likeable in social situations
- Don't overshare your whole life's story.
Actually listen to what people say. Then respond accordingly.
Remember people's names and use them.
- Be super positive & awesome to be around. Pessimists don't win many friends.
Work on your confidence levels.
Make someone feel special. The best way is to act as if the person speaking to you is the most important person in the world.
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