The Year That Was: A Reflective Guide to Unlock Your Potential for 2025

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You’re reading part one of Your Best Year Yet: A Step-by-Step Guide — a special year-end series designed to help you reflect on the past year, set transformative goals, and create a plan to thrive in the year ahead.

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Reflection isn’t only about looking back — it’s about learning. And you can make better decisions for the future when you understand what worked, what didn’t, and why.

Think about it. How often did you rush into the new year with fresh goals, only to abandon them by February?

It’s not because you lack motivation. It’s because you skip the most important step: learning from the year you’ve just lived.

An End of Year Review allows you to:

• Celebrate your achievements and build confidence.
• Identify and address patterns that hold you back.
• Gain clarity on what truly matters to you.

The process is not complicated. However, it requires honesty, curiosity, and a little time. So grab a notebook, find a quiet spot, and get started!

Would you rush into a big project without preparation? Well, this review is no different. Start by creating an environment where you can focus and think clearly.

• Find Your Space. Pick a place that feels comfortable and free of distractions.
• Gather Your Tools . Bring a notebook or journal and any notes, calendars, or goal trackers from the past year if you’ve kept them.
• Adopt the Right Mindset . You won’t use this session to judge yourself. You will use it to understand what you did and why.

Are you ready? Let’s start with the first part of the review: celebrating wins.

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When I started my first End-of-Year Review, I was so focused on what I hadn’t done that I almost missed what I had accomplished. It wasn’t until I sat down and wrote a list of wins — no matter how small — that I realized how much I’d grown.

Ask Yourself:

• What am I proud of accomplishing this year?
• Which moments brought me the most joy or fulfillment?
• Who or what made those successes possible?

I know these sessions could be intimidating. Most people don’t trust their achievements enough and sometimes don’t even consider them as wins. But you have to focus and be specific.

Don’t write generic sentences like I got healthier . Note the actions behind it: I started walking 20 minutes every morning and felt more energized.

As you write, take time to savor each memory. These wins are proof that you’re capable of growth. It doesn’t matter how small they seem. They are a reminder that progress isn’t always loud or flashy. On the contrary, it can happen quietly, one small step at a time.

Once you finish celebrating your wins, it’s time to think about learning. This is where you turn to the areas where you struggled — not to criticize yourself, but to uncover what they can teach you.

This part of the process is always humbling for me. Two years ago, I set a goal to launch a side project by summer but never got past the brainstorming phase. At first, I blamed a lack of time. But when I dug deeper, I realized the problem — I’d been afraid to put my ideas into the world.

Last year, this project became The Challenge.

Ask Yourself:

• Which goals did I struggle to achieve, and why?
• What habits or patterns held me back?
• Were there external factors that impacted my plans?

Be honest but gentle with yourself as you reflect. The goal isn’t to dwell on failure but to identify patterns and roadblocks so you can address them moving forward.

Now, let’s make some magic happen.

You have listed your wins and challenges. But you haven’t understood the reason behind your failures yet. So, step back and look for patterns.

For example, did you notice that you tend to procrastinate on a specific task? Or did you notice that your best achievements came when you worked with a partner or mentor?

Ask Yourself:

• What worked well, and why?
• What didn’t work, and what can I do differently?
• What habits, routines, or mindsets help or hinder me?

Last year, I realized that my most productive months were when I stuck to a morning routine.

It wasn’t anything elaborate — 30 minutes of writing followed by a quick run — but it set the tone for my day. And that insight became the foundation for a habit I still rely on today.

The final step of your review is the most liberating: deciding what to let go.

Think of it like cleaning out your closet. You are not only making space for the new. You are freeing yourself from the weight of things that no longer serve you.

Ask Yourself:

• Which habits, beliefs, or commitments am I ready to release?
• What doesn’t align with my values or goals anymore?

Last year, I had to let go of my perfectionism. I used to believe I had to achieve every goal flawlessly, but that mindset paralyzed me. So, letting go of it didn’t only feel freeing — it made me more effective.

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