6 hallmarks of an exceptional relationship

  1. Both can fully be themselves.
  2. Both of you are willing to be vulnerable.
  3. Trusting that self-disclosure won't be used against you.
  4. The ability to be honest with each other.
  5. Dealing with conflict productively- take the issue seriously>what's going on with her>arrive at a mutually satisfying solution>what repair work needs to be done.
  6. You are both committed to each other's growth and development.

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Key Insights from Connect by David Bradford and Carole Robin

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The soldier mindset makes evrything such that the person having it is persuaded that he is the only right person. It makes you adamant to your thoughts. It hides the truth. 

People with this mindset do everything to prove that they are right. 

Ex- A spy gave some secret info. and the paper on which he wrote the info. was found. The handwriting was researched it seemed to belong to xyz. Another person, abc, was also found to have the same handwriting. Nearly everyone, having soldier mindset, said that abc had copied the handwriting of xyz and xyz was the actual spy. Thus, xyz was put in jail.

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Key Insights from The Scout Mindset by Julia Galef

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  • Heroes always strive to be courageous.
  • Heroes make sacrifices for others.
  • A Hero always act with integrity.
  • Heroes don't give up - they persevere.
  • Heroes always fulfill their duties.
  • It's heroic to give others hope.

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Key Insights from The Hero Code by William H. McRaven

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  • You need 2 things for winning, desire and vision. Desire gives 2 things- commitment which keeps you focused, perseverance which keeps you going. Ok. Done. Great.
  • Then you need to set goals for winning. For setting ideal goals-
  1. Make your goals specific
  2. Identify the obstacles which may come in path of your goal
  3. Make a detailed plan to your goal.
  4. Act on your goals earnestly.

Ok. Done. Great.

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Key Insights from Born to Win by Zig Ziglar with Tom Ziglar

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