... and failure is good even if it feels really bad when it happens.
Look for the greater message of the experience and expect it to, eventually, turn out for the good.
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“Failure and defeat are life’s greatest teachers [but] sadly, most people, and particularly conservative corporate cultures, don’t want to go there...Instead they choose to play it safe, to fly below the radar, repeating the same safe choices over and over again. They operate under the belief that if they make no waves, they attract no attention; no one will yell at them for failing because they generally never attempt anything great at which they could possibly fail (or succeed).”
- Ralph Heath
We've all been bred to strive for success, attain perfection, sacrifice our dreams for obligation and "win", but we forget that failure is a necessary part of success.
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The first step in this process is to define what you are feared of you should be completely clear of your failure for which you are feared of. Let’s say you are a job seeker who is looking for a good MNC to work with now your fear of failure may include whether I will get a good company to work with, whether I will be good at interview, what if I don’t come up on their expectation but be positive in every way however big or complex the problem or fear just believe in yourself and try to see what are the actual problems you are facing, defining the problem can lead to overcoming the fear of failure in an easy manner.
Always have a positive attitude whatever the situation is and you will slowly see miracles happening around you so in this step, the simple thing you have to do is to change the way you see the problems, for saying your problem is “what if I get rejected from the interview” now when you change your attitude the problem for you is “what are the things which can lead you to get rejected from the interview”. The difference between these two things is that the former fear is just a worry which makes you more and more worried and there is no solution for it but the latter question is an exact question that has an answer which you can get by small research like you can get rejected from the interview by negative body gestures, lack of vocabulary and so on and when you complete this step you are completely done with what your fear is and what its solution is.
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