Three liberating insights - Deepstash
No More Broke

Learn more about books with this collection

Identifying and eliminating unnecessary expenses

How to negotiate better deals

Understanding the importance of saving

No More Broke

Discover 83 similar ideas in

It takes just

14 mins to read

Three liberating insights

Three liberating insights

  1. people are not as interested in you as you had always believed.
  2. not everyone has to like you
  3. if we are brutally honest with ourselves, most things we do for others are in fact for ourselves

6

35 reads

MORE IDEAS ON THIS

When you are feeling confused

A very modern dilemma:

There are countless television channels, but nothing interesting to watch.

Too many choices make people unhappy.

Are you feeling confused or conflicted? Allow yourself a good night’s sleep. When you wake up the next day, the problem will seem lig...

8

19 reads

A cruel irony

A cruel irony

The reward for someone who works hard is more work.

6

22 reads

Be aware of what you feel

Be aware of what you feel

When you are stressed out, be aware of your stress.

When you are irritated, be aware of your irritation.

When you are angry, be aware of your anger.

As soon as you become aware of these feelings you are no longer lost in them.

Your awareness allows you to witness them from...

6

23 reads

Enlightened and unenlightened person

For unenlightened people, not every day is a good day, because they feel happy only when things happen the way they want them to.

For enlightened people, every single day is a good day, because they feel free knowing that nothing can take away their wisdom

7

25 reads

When you lower yourself, the world elevates you.

When you elevate yourself, the world lowers you.

HAEMIN SUNIM

6

22 reads

How to change a bad situation

How to change a bad situation

If you’ve been unable to change a bad situation, even after many attempts, you should change how you look at the situation.

Nothing is intrinsically good or bad. Good or bad is always relative.

Compare your situation with someone’s that is worse. Now yours does not seem so bad after...

6

22 reads

Do you have enemies?

be humble and stop speaking ill of people.

Those who do not make enemies are more powerful than those who have the strength to fight them all and win.

7

20 reads

Related collections

More like this

Make People Like You

  • Become interested in other people. We are interested in others when they are interested in us.
  • Smile. A smile says, "I like you."
  • Always remember people's names.
  • Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
  • Talk in terms of the other person’s...

Learn To Be Genuinely Interested In People

We are interested in others when they are interested in us.

If you want to make friends, put yourself out to do things for other people – things that require time, energy, unselfishness, and thoughtfulness.

How to interest your audience

  • People are interested in extraordinary facts about ordinary things.
  • People are interested in themselves.
  • To be a good conversationalist, lead others to talk about themselves and their interests.
  • Use human interest stories to illustrate your points. Glorified gossip an...

Read & Learn

20x Faster

without
deepstash

with
deepstash

with

deepstash

Access to 200,000+ ideas

Access to the mobile app

Unlimited idea saving & library

Unlimited history

Unlimited listening to ideas

Downloading & offline access

Personalized recommendations

Supercharge your mind with one idea per day

Enter your email and spend 1 minute every day to learn something new.

Email

I agree to receive email updates