When someone is forced to do (publicly) something they (privately) really don't want to do, dissonance is created between their cognition (I didn't want to do this) and their behavior (I did it). But the behavior can't be changed, since it was already in the past, so it will need to be reduced by re-evaluating their attitude to what they have done.
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