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Some people f*** things up in this two ways

Some people f*** things up in this two ways

For many people solving problems doesn't feel that simple. They f*** up things up in at least one of two ways:

  1. Denial - denying reality or constanlty distracting themselves from reality
  2. Victim Mentality - believing that they can do nothing to solve their problems; blaming others for their problems or blaming the outside circumstances
  • This people deny and blame others for their problems, because it's easy and feels good - while solving problems is hard and often feels bad

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Blame and Denial gives you a quick high

  • They are a way to temporarily escape our problems - makes you feel better
  • Highs have many forms: alcohol, moral righteousness, blaming others
  • Highs are superficial and unproductive

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Happiness Comes from Solving Problems

Happiness Comes from Solving Problems

  • Problems are a constant in life
  • They never stop; problems purely get exchanged and/or upgraded
  • For Example: You solve your health problem by buying a gym membership; you create new problems; like sweating, then getti...

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