Scared? Accept it

Many of us stick to playing it safe, but that’s the killer of any great performance.

There’s no magic trick for dissolving fear, but you can manage it: Before you go into a situation that matters, take some time to identify your greatest fear or fears. Be as specific as possible and name exactly what it is. Then, go for it.

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