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The impact of the end-of-history illusion
People believe that the person they are now will be who they are for the rest of their lives. It can create certain effects:
- Reactive life choices. It is easier to default to what you are now rather than to work towards what you want to be.
- Fixed mindset. "I'm too introverted to make friends", or "my job will always come first". A fixed mindset may prevent us from changing for the better.
- Short-sighted planning. We can become overly optimistic or pessimistic, leading to short-sighted planning.
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The end-of-history illusion
The end-of-history illusion is when we underestimate how much our personalities, work situations and values will change in the future.
The end-of-history illusion was coined in 2013. It is based on a series of studies showing that people tend to think that they will change...
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Reflect on your past self
- Take the time to consider who you were three years ago. What kinds of activities did you like? What type of work did you lie the most? Who were your friends?
- Now consider who you are right now. Consider your current friends, activities you like n...
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Imagine your ideal future self
Consider penning down a vision statement - what you really want in the future.
Ask yourself:
- What will a typical day look like?
- What will your work environment look like?
- How much money do you want to make?
Also cons...
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Share your personal vision
Sharing your personal vision is vital to help keep you accountable. It compels you to change your behaviour to be consistent with your story.
Your trusted colleagues and friends can also cheer you along the way.
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Useful but expiring information
When you find information that is important to you, ask: "Will I still regard this information as important a year from now? Five? Ten?" E.g. quarterly earnings are useful, but no one cares about 2010 earnings because they ceased to be useful.
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Navigating the end of a friendship
- Try to be honest with the person. Do it with kindness and just talk about your own emotional availability. "I realize that I'm not a good friend right now. I just don't feel very emotionally available."
- Try to avoid "all or nothing" thinking. Frien...
The Four Villains of Decision Making
- Narrow framing: The tendency to define our choices in binary terms. We ask, "should I, or shouldn't I?" instead of “What are the ways I could...?”
- Confirmation bias: People tend to select the information that supports their preexi...
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