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How do we argue?
There must be trust, that both parties are here for conflict resolution, and not hurt each other.
Create a safe space - a space for a non-judgmental, open conversation. To allow the other person to be honest about their feelings, whilst feeling safe and secure when sharing your feelings.
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Are emotions good for arguments?
Showing your emotions is important, especially if they are a means to express what you're feeling to your partner.
However, when emotions like anger or aggression hit that point of hurting your loved one, that's when we've gone too far. To prevent this, it's important to be mindful of how ...
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Why do we argue?
With a clash of ideas, there will be conflict. The purpose of a conversation is to communicate, to allow the listener to understand our point of view. And, we listen, not just to respond to them, but to understand them.
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Conflicts
When there are differing perspectives, there will be a conflict of interest. This means that arguments are almost inevitable. But why and how we argue are such important aspects to be explored to build strong and meaningful relationships.
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Argue mindfully
All in all, it is important to have the bigger picture in mind when having these conversations. Also, remember that no argument, no conflict is worth losing your loved one over. Communication is the first step to resolution.
It's not about "you versus me", it's "us against the problem".
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Resolving conflict
- Talk together. Each person should have adequate time to say what he or she believes the other party needs to hear.
- Listen carefully to gain understanding. Give your complete attention to the person who is talking without interrupting.
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Consistency
In order for a relationship to be safe, it must develop consistency.
Consistency is the action of repeating our time together which in turn develops our trust as we begin to create and modify expectations of each other. It’s what builds a shared history and increases our c...
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