- You need a unique image. Even more, a totally unique detail. After all, your own original image is the thing that makes even strangers remember you.
- To make people reach for you and appreciate you as a really unique personality, you must have a reason for existence. Ambitions, aims, a desire to change something in this world. Struggle for something.
- To be charismatic, you need to be confident. Courageously make decisions, be able to rely only on yourself, don't wait for help from the outside, and explain your ideas to others in a way they understand.
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